It’s not that difficult for boys to chase girls. Boys who find it difficult are just using the wrong method. Here are 10 tips for boys to chase girls. Each is the experience of old drivers.
1. Don’t “kneel and lick”
Girls will like pugs, but they won’t be with a man like a pug. Kneeling and licking, you can’t chase a girl, even if you are lucky enough to catch it, even if you are together, you are just a spare in her love.
2. Don’t let her not marry at every turn
If she does not marry, this kind of behavior of over-reliance on one person is a manifestation of low EQ. Not to mention, before being together, you are defined as true fate, except for making you afraid to type, dating a sweat, and reducing your charm. It has no meaning and is of no benefit to the birth of this relationship. Even scared girls away.
3. Do not post “lowb circle of friends”
Whatever your circle of friends is not good, you are just like you. If you don’t even understand the shocking rumors, news, and reposts that marketing accounts use the low-level people as a tool for monetizing traffic, you don’t understand them, and you deserve no girls like them. Therefore, delete the lowb content in your circle of friends, show food, life, friends gatherings, pets, and your own thinking is the right way.
4. Make yourself interesting
The girl is not chasing, remember. The pursuit without attraction will only have a counterproductive effect. Before pursuing, please make sure that the girl is a little interesting to you, otherwise, no matter how much time, it will only waste youth on impossible people. The key to making the other person interesting to you is to make yourself interesting.
5. Don’t over expose your intentions
I believe that everyone has experienced a kind of dialogue, that is, they are cleverly transferred and resolved by girls after various cues, such as the following untimely confession:
“I like a girl like you”
“Stop kidding, always make trouble with me, hahahahaha”
If a girl doesn’t catch up, she will think in the eyes of boys, does she really think I’m joking? No, I have to let her know that I really like her, I need to do more, be better to her, and let her know about me. heart!
Then, I will do more things that touch me and think that I will touch girls.
The result is naturally “I think you are very good, but…”
Girls subconsciously don’t like to approach purposefully, and being reserved makes them feel that being fast is not a matter of security.
If you show strong liking within a few days of meeting, she will feel that you can treat her like this or others like this, and with obvious intentions, she will feel uncomfortable and insecure.
More often, the two will be in a romantic relationship, and there will also be a lot of emotional imbalance. One is eager to give and is eager to respond accordingly. The other does not want to hurt others or deceive himself. It is between disguise and truth. Wandering in between, the accumulation of emotions will stimulate conflict.
6. Don’t show off
When you’re on a blind date, take a stack of house books, say hello how many suites and cars you have, how big your company is, these are things that are very disgusting to girls. There are many ways to show the same, but this is not the case. Kind.
What does this behavior express?
It’s not that the more you show off, the more you lack. The best you can see is what you have lacked, but the real problem comes from the fact that girls don’t want to treat themselves as commodities and money transactions. Even if a few girls want to, they won’t want you. Put this matter out and make it clear in one sentence: If you put these things out, how can you convince girls that they are not with you because of money?
At the same time, when you show this, it’s like saying “Look, I only have money”, and the man deliberately shows that the sixth sense of the girl can feel that you are sexually attracted to yourself (shape, face value, emotional value) Lack of self-confidence and even low self-esteem.
It’s best to treat high value as something indifferent, and when the time comes, to show it unintentionally, or even to be discovered by a woman herself, is the best practice.
For example, if you want to show that you have a car, you don’t need to take a picture of the steering wheel or a big car logo. You can say something when chatting with a girl:
“I’m driving, let’s not talk about it.”
Or holding a dog in the car with the text “Please don’t pee in the car again today”, then everyone’s focus will be on this naughty dog and helpless you. Then I accidentally saw the blue sky and white clouds on the steering wheel, or horse or cow.
A better way is that the girl doesn’t know that you have a car, and on the first date you park the car out of sight, and then when you receive the girl, help her wear a seat belt.
7. Upgrade the relationship in time
When we meet someone we like, we often dare not enter. This is also a common problem of many brothers. In normal times, I am a big god, and when I meet a girl I really like, I will die, and I will die of nervousness. When I reply to a message, I have to type a bunch of words and delete it before sending it out. One sentence that is particularly unnutritive, typically thinks too much.
I can understand this completely. Even I can’t completely control this bug, but I still have to say that because I miss the window, there will be too many things.
The window period means that during this period of time, a girl may (she herself did not expect or know) to accept your moving behavior, including language, emotion, and physical, and this time is also when your success rate is highest .
8. Don’t confess untimely
Unless you are 100% sure that the girl will accept it, for example, if you have already held hands, don’t do such a moral kidnapping. The confession is a ritual of making up promises to conquer the city, not a clarion call to charge. You can also take advantage of the emptiness to keep in touch. Once you really have to say it, you will be put into the ranks of “impossible people” by girls.
9. Stop “convincing girls to like you”
I study so well! Why don’t you stay with me?
I’m so good to you! Why don’t you stay with me?
I have three suites in Beijing and two cars. Why would you refuse to see me?
If you show the girl’s inner needs clearly, she can’t convince herself that she is with you not because of money but because of need.
Can’t do it so that girls don’t need to convince themselves that they are someone who likes you, and you just happen to have money? Every woman wants to marry love.
10. Don’t “self-limit”
When we want to know a beautiful girl, the first reaction is, hey, she must have a boyfriend, hey, a girl like her will definitely not like me, hey, what about her. The result may be a fate. When you set your own limits, you left. So many regrets are brought to yourself by you.
Before others stop you, you stop yourself first. This is what the whole world will give you when you really want it.
When you meet a girl you like, don’t worry about where it is, whether you have a boyfriend, whether you will be rejected, or whether someone is laughing at you, or whether she is waiting for someone, because she is waiting The person may be you.
