16 qualities of children

there are, on many occasions, characteristics that are very valuable, however, we are so used to looking at the negative that we do not know how to appreciate the positive of those negative characteristics. For this reason, below we focus on analyzing what are those qualities considered defects that, however, are great strengths of children.

Index

1. Qualities that are seen as flaws but are virtues
2. Children’s traits considered negative but which are strengths

Qualities that are seen as flaws but are virtues

We all have a unique personality that makes us special. A personality full of strengths and flaws that, fortunately, we can work with. But, for this, we have to be attentive to how children develop. Next we are going to detail expressions that can serve as a state of alert to observe and appreciate a value of our child , instead of criticizing it:

1. This child is stubborn.
   What if we change stubbornness for perseverance ? Perhaps the virtue that we can appreciate in our son is persistent. Let’s not forget that persistent children will have more opportunities to achieve what they set out to do in life.
2. My son demands a lot, he is too demanding.
   He may be a child who knows how to recognize what he needs at all times and that, in his life, will help him to have a clear direction to achieve what he sets out to do .
3. This child doesn’t stop talking, he’s very talkative.
   What if we had a potential good communicator? Someone who will not be afraid to face an audience tomorrow  and who knows how to express what he wants to an audience that will like to hear him. Rate it.
4. My son is very bossy.
   He may be in charge now but in the future, by filing some characteristics, he can lead to a good leader.
5. My son is affected by everything, he is very sensitive.
   Perhaps this sensitivity is a sign that our son is very empathetic , and this quality will help him to put himself in the place of others and to better understand the circumstances of each one.
6. My child is a nonconformist
   Your child does not accept the first thing that is offered and is struggling to show what really matters to him. Value this way of expressing yourself.
7. My daughter spends the day dreaming, she is too dreamy
   Your daughter likes to set goals in life and dream that she achieves them. Perhaps you are inadvertently using visualization as a tool to set goals in life .
8. My son is scared of everything, he is very scared
   Perhaps your son is cautious, cautious and / or prudent . This virtue may be helping you to be more thoughtful and less impulsive.
9. My son is not afraid of anything
   On the opposite side we find this other expression. Your child can be brave and have the courage to face the challenges that life will bring him, managing to overcome himself.
10. My child is too organized
    to your son likes order and beauty, perhaps cleaning too. Keeping the spaces orderly and clean brings peace to our minds.
11. My son gives everything, has no appreciation for anything
    We have a generous child who likes to share with others, who knows how to take care of their needs and who is not attached to anything.

Children’s traits considered negative but which are strengths

We continue with our list of some of the qualities of children that we normally consider shortcomings but that, nevertheless, are great virtues and strengths that they have. Without a doubt, this exercise will make us reflect on the way we see things.

12. My daughter does not get angry with anyone, sometimes I want her to
    . Do you think your little girl is shy? Your daughter is a girl with self-control , with which she begins to be aware of her emotions and behavior, being able to regulate them. Let’s learn from it. Far from being a defect, it is a quality that you will need for coexistence with other people in your life.
13. There is no way to help my daughter.
    Your daughter is autonomous and can take care of herself, which is empowering her to cope with life. Teach him to ask for help when he needs it, and trust it.
14. My daughter is very proud
    Perhaps that pride is your daughter’s way of protecting herself. Help him discover what is behind that attitude. Pride can be positive at times, but at others, not acknowledging your mistakes can lead to problems.
15. My daughter is always changing places, not for
    We have a potential creative . Generating new ideas and the ease of carrying them out are values ​​that you must appreciate in your daughter. They will come in handy for your life. Besides being a possible source of inspiration and originality.
16. My daughter is a very perfectionist.
    Perfection can also be seen as a positive value because it means that she likes to do and leave things well done. However, it can become a trait that makes your daughter unhappy. Show him the limits of perfection.

Remember that the important thing is to accept our children as they are . Only help them change when any of their personality characteristics may be causing them suffering . If at any time you are not qualified to offer this help, go to a professional.