Good people are hard to do? The answer turns out to be, No. Doing good is easy, especially if we make it our habit
There are 12 ways to be a good person. The following are:
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Smarter Identification of Right and False
Knowing right and wrong is one of the main things that must be known and worked on so that we become better people and have a character.
Why is this important?
Surely we know that there is no way a righteous person will feel afraid when accused and a wrong person will dare to oppose. From this it can be learned that we must always try to be good people in the sense of being honest in doing all things right and fixing all mistakes for the better so that we are not afraid because we are right.
Besides that, remember that people who walk in the truth will always get blessings and people who walk in mistakes will get restlessness and anxiety in their hearts.
- Becoming More Optimistic and Thinking Positive
Attempts to always be optimistic and think positive even in bad situations is something that must be done. If we think positively then we will feel calm, and if we can’t calm down at least we can think without haste about how to get out of a bad situation.
Having positive thoughts will give changes to our life patterns. Problems are easier to solve, and this helps us to face the bigger challenges in life. So because of that, our morals will automatically change for the better over time.
- Trying to be empathetic
Trying to put yourself in the shoes of others is necessary because it will help us understand people better and naturally will make us feel better.
Being empathetic always makes the relationship between each other better, not only that, but caring will also make our morals better because if we are successful in understanding other people’s feelings and not being selfish, it is clear that the heart will be touched and eventually the good effects will emerge. .
- Never Be Fair.
Picky behavior when it comes to making friends must be resolved immediately. Being indifferent will only make us friendless. We must not differentiate between one another, because all of them were created by Allah in the same condition and there is no difference. The difference in humans is only because of the person himself, because of knowledge and knowledge people are different.
We must seek knowledge and knowledge as much as possible so that our self-esteem can be lifted both in this world and in the hereafter. But we must not forget to always respect and not be picky about our friends so that our souls do not become proud people.
Let’s learn to give everyone the same treatment. Being able to position everyone equally in terms of relationships is an important point that we must do to be good people.
People who possess these qualities will mostly be respected everywhere and have good qualities.
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Watch over the words
If you speak carefully and before speaking, consider first whether the words are good or not, and if they are not good then it is better to keep quiet, because all the words that have been said cannot be taken back.
If we speak in an abusive way, it can hurt others and will lead to bad behavior for us. Therefore let’s always try to be gentle whenever we speak. The benefit is that without being aware of it, besides making ourselves into good morals and character, we will also be liked by many people. - Always Respect Others
Everyone needs an appreciation. If we want to be respected, we must first respect those around us. By paying respect for the attitude or behavior of others will not reduce our respect but will make us even better.
- Always Forgive And Apologize
Life is not eternal and life is too short to hold grudges, so let’s release anger by doing positive things and forgiving people who make mistakes against us.
In accordance with facts and facts, if we do this, then without being told, we will naturally grow to be better people and become people with noble character.
Apologizing to others when we have a problem with it will certainly not reduce our self-esteem as a good human being, but will make us free from problems and our image and morals will be better. By apologizing to people we have made angry with and so on then the morals will be brought to be better by itself.
- Take care of associations
Relationships determine a person’s morals and personality, so that in associating we can choose everyone and make everyone friends but we must be able to sort out good behavior to emulate. We must not fall into a dark hole if our friend is a person with bad character.
It is better to always approach friends who are well-behaved and have good character without shunning friends who have bad morals so that our friends will become many. We have to have good and bad friends in a balance. The benefit is that we can get good influence from good friends and sort bad behavior from friends whose behavior is not good.
- Not Repeating Mistakes
If we want to be better people, then we must learn to identify mistakes ¬ to serve as guidelines so that we do not fall into the hole of mistakes for the second time.
- Find
things that other people like. Finding something that other people like is important. This is done so that we can minimize doing something that is hated by those closest to us. If we minimize and sort out the goodness and the things that people like, it tends to be easier for us to do good things and that will also be liked by other people and later our morals will automatically become better.
- Try
to be a useful person for others. Understand the strengths then try to be a person who is useful to others and never give up, always helping people who need help is obligatory. Because from doing the slightest kindness we will be better.
- Getting closer
After we try then we must pray to God so that our morals and personality are changed for the better and kept away from bad things. With the ridhonya, everything we want including being a better person will be easier to achieve.
Being a good person of course must be honest in every speech or doing something even to yourself and others, if interested,
It is about how to be a better and more moral person. I hope that readers will understand when they encounter errors either in terms of speech or language because I am also just an ordinary human being who is not far from mistakes.
That is more or less the simple ways to be a good person.
From now on, shall we practice?
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