The language of flirting is the most common language in relationships between a man and a woman. Some have it by nature, but most need lessons! Flirting language is all about words and gestures. Words, the meaning of which can be explicit and hidden. And gestures that are sometimes clearer than any words. Do you want to get to know each other easily and make a lasting impression from the very beginning? Do you want to shine like a diamond in any company? Do you want to be noticed always and everywhere? Do you want to easily open your way to love, friendship, sex – with the most interesting people?
What is flirting? It is a set of verbal and non-verbal actions that we take to express an interest in another person. Flirting is fun, flirting is safe, flirting is natural!
Knowing how to flirt properly can help you meet people you wouldn’t dare to approach before. With the help of flirting, you can express yourself more fully and unusually, add romance to any conversation, and also increase the self-esteem of your interlocutor. When you flirt, you feel more confident and energetic – and it is on this foundation that deeper feelings are built, this is the foundation of your journey.
Where can this road take you? Yes, anywhere! Friendship by interest, professional connections, romance, romance, marriage or a one-day relationship that will remain a pleasant memory. No matter what the outcome of your actions, flirting makes dating and communication magical. You might say flirting is great, but at the same time so scary!
Are sweaty palms, dry mouth, rumbling in your stomach, or just feeling anxious or anxious – familiar feelings? We have experienced these “symptoms” more than once when we tried to meet a young man or girl we liked, say, at a party. Here you look at him or her, and the same questions are pounding in your head.
- Should I even go to him (her)?
- What can I say? And why not say?
- Do I need to look him (her) in the eye?
- What if I get blown away?
- What if he (she) later ceases to please me?
- What if he (she) doesn’t like me?
Fears are pretty debilitating. Moreover – often because of fear we do not do something that could ultimately help us achieve what we want. Remember, we are all afraid of something. When at my seminars I ask those who are afraid of rejection to raise their hands, I see the hands of 99% of the participants.
Our Top 10 Tips list contains the most important facts about flirting to remember. They will cheer you up in difficult times and make an excellent mini flirting guide.
The most seasoned experts use at least six of these tips for every flirt. And you? Try it!
Tip # 10: flirt with a positive attitude
Flirting people tend to be confident and not afraid to take risks. Do everything with enthusiasm and a positive attitude!
Tip # 9: start a conversation
The best phrase to start a conversation is the usual “Hello!” Talk about your surroundings at the moment, ask a question, ask for help, or give your opinion about something.
Tip # 8: have fun
Be fun, lighthearted, and laid-back. Showcase your sense of humor or any other talent in all its glory.
Tip # 7: actively use flirting accessories
Never leave home without “props” – it will make it easier for you and those around you to start a conversation. The best accessories for flirting are pets, fancy jewelry, perfume, a T-shirt with the name of the university or school where you studied, a flashy tie, or an interesting book or magazine.
Tip # 6: behave like a master of the house
At any party or similar event, try to act like a host rather than a guest. Instead of passively waiting in the corner, become the head of the hospitality committee!
Tip # 5: take the first step
Get in close, give a compliment, make eye contact, or just say hello to the person you would like to get to know better.
Tip # 4: listen
You have two ears and only one mouth, so you have to listen twice as much as you speak. Practice listening actively and attentively.
Tip # 3: make eye contact
Try to make direct eye contact right away, but try to keep your gaze gentle and kind. No drilling with eyes or tension in the gaze is repulsive.
Tip # 2: Compliment
Compliment the person you are talking to. This will let him (her) know that you are paying attention to every detail in his (her) appearance. Just speak honestly and sincerely. This can lead to unexpected results!
Tip # 1: Smile!
A smile is contagious! Plus, it will make you more open to communication. A smile illuminates the face and attracts people like a magnet. Try it!
We wish you a successful and pleasant flirting!
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