Putting all your feelings down in a love letter can be brutal. But, a love letter for a man is a great way to show the depth of your feelings and all the tenderness you have for him. Whether it’s for a special occasion or just because you miss him, you need to find the perfect words to express whatever is on your heart.
Don’t keep your feelings buried, when you care about someone you absolutely have to tell them. Express your love because even if you think your partner knows how much you love them, it is still pleasant to hear the words “I love you”.
If you are worried that your words will be misunderstood or are afraid of digging deep inside to find every spark that is there, you can always use the following 10 examples as inspiration to write a love letter for a man.
Love letter for a man to tell him why you love him
You always ask me why I love you, so I decided to answer you black and white so that you can keep track and reread this list when you feel the need.
I like your sense of humor; this is the first thing I noticed about you. You have this ability to make people feel comfortable with a little joke and you always include everyone around you, instead of making fun of someone.
I love your optimistic nature; you see the good in every person and every situation. When I look at the world through your eyes, it’s a much more beautiful place. I also like your charm and your sensuality: you are much more beautiful than you think. You are also gentle when you need to and strong when the situation calls for it.
I love your generous soul. As soon as you see someone who needs help, you jump to their aid. You understand how easy it is to find yourself in a difficult situation and that’s why you lend a helping hand when you can.
I love the way you kiss me and make love to me. You are a perfect gentleman: gentle, attentive, caring and passionate. But, the most important is that I love you because you complete me. You are my soul mate ! I could make you a list of thousands of reasons why I love you but I’m afraid you will realize how exceptional you are and that I do not match you.
Always stay close to me, I love you with all my heart.
Love letter for a man to remind you of the night you met
I remember the day we met like it was yesterday. We were at a party and I was having a drink with some friends when I, for no apparent reason, started scanning the room. My eyes landed on you and my heart immediately started pounding. You turned around then and you smiled at me and as soon as I saw that I knew I had to know you better.
I continued to talk with my friends but my heart was pounding so hard I couldn’t hear the conversation. One of my friends asked me if I was feeling well because my face had turned all red. I replied: “I think I just fell in love”.
When you walked past me, our eyes met again and that moment I was praying to all gods possible to give me the strength and composition to tell you something smart. When you noticed my confusion, you just smiled and said “good evening”. There you go, it all started with a smile from you!
Holds ever since and forever.
Love letter for a man when you are in a romantic mood
My love, my heart, my soul mate,
If you are wondering how much I love you, no more questioning yourself because here is the answer. You are the sun of my day, the river that runs through my veins and the air that I breathe. Before I met you, I didn’t think it was possible to love someone so sincerely, pure and deep.
But, you gave me faith and I understood that true love exists because I share it with you. I love you with all my heart, with all my soul and with all my body. You are my prince charming, my soul mate and my best friend.
I am completely yours.
Love letter for a man when you feel the playful soul
Dear [name of your spouse],
You are the luckiest man on the planet because you get a “Dear [name of your spouse]” letter every time someone writes to you. You are even luckier because my letters “Dear [name of your spouse]” are second to none in terms of love, appreciation and tenderness.
You send me flowers, I send you a “Dear [name of your spouse]”; you offer me tickets for the concert of my favorite group, I send you a “Dear [name of your spouse]”; you buy me diamonds for my birthday, I send you a “Dear [name of your spouse]”.
So my dear [name of your spouse], let me tell you how much I desire you, appreciate you, adore you and respect you. I love you, I honor you and I need you and only you.
My dear [name of your spouse] I will love you forever!
Love letter for a man on his birthday
Today is your birthday and I just wanted to take a moment to tell you that I love you. Just being with you has made all my dreams come true and I want to do everything I can to make your wildest wishes come true, too.
You deserve to be cherished because you are the sweetest, kindest, most caring man and best boyfriend a woman can have. For all these reasons, I adore you. I hope we celebrate your birthday together, every year, for the rest of our lives.
Happy birthday to my prince charming.
Love letter for a man on your birthday
It was exactly [number of years] years ago that you first told me that you loved me and asked me to be your girlfriend. That night you changed my life and put us on the path to endless happiness.
When I look at you today, I realize that my love for you is getting deeper and deeper, richer and richer and more and more satisfying every day. When something good happens to me, you are the first person I want to share the good news with.
When something bad happens I know I can count on you to hug me and tell me everything is going to be okay. I am the luckiest woman in the world because I can honestly say that I am in love with my best friend.
No other man in this world comes close to your ankle, my darling. And, I just wanted to tell you that I love you more than any romantic word can express.
With all my love.
Love letter for a man to tell him that you miss him
Being apart from you is much more difficult than I had imagined. I see things that remind me of your absence from everywhere and they only give me one desire: to be near you. I love you with all my heart. I cherish every moment we have the chance to spend together and love you even more when you’re not around.
Tonight as I write this letter it is as if you are sitting next to me. I feel your hands on my shoulders, your fingers in my hair and the gentle breath of your kisses on my cheek. I miss you, honey. Come home quickly.
I love you.
Love letter for a man when you want to boost his confidence
My valiant knight,
I haven’t told you for a long time so I decided to put it in writing. You are the most attractive man I know and I find it hard to believe that you are mine. You make me laugh and you give me orgasms like no one else before you. You are perfect for me ! I wouldn’t change a thing about you.
I love the sound of your voice, the way you kiss me and the fact that you know all my secrets and my weaknesses but still accept me as I am.
I simply love you
Love letter for a man after an argument
To my soul mate,
I realized that last night I had exceeded the limits and reacted a little too violently. I’m sorry, sweetheart. The truth is, I can’t imagine my life without you. When you walk into the room where I am, my heart starts racing. When I hear your voice, I melt from the inside.
When I see your face, I know for sure that you are the love of my life. When you hug me, I feel like I’m in the only place where I really belong. Please forgive me and let’s be reconciled tonight.
With all my love.
Love letter for a man when you want to get back with him
Maybe I shouldn’t tell you this because it might be a stupid idea but I can’t forget you. My friends push me to move on, but I don’t want to. I don’t want to delete your messages or our photos (no, I still haven’t).
I am aware that we had problems but I am convinced that we can work together to solve them. I am ready to make efforts and compromises if you are. I’m ready to fight for you and I hope you are too.
I loved you and I still love you, your beloved.
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Bonus: how to write a love letter for a man
When you try to write a love letter, you might have the impression that the words written do not fully reflect how you are feeling. You then become frustrated. Remember: a love letter written from the heart is always romantic.
- Prepare to write
You don’t have to know exactly what you want to say, but at least prepare a list of things that you absolutely want to mention. Think about the real reasons that prompted you to write a love letter for a man. Is it for a special occasion or just to tell her how much you feel? When writing, you should always keep in mind the motivation that inspired you to start this pamphlet.
- Start writing
Create a first draft in which you throw out all the ideas and feelings you want to convey. Don’t worry about spelling and grammar. When finished, let your letter sit for an hour or two; this will allow you to take a step back and see more clearly. Once satisfied, you can copy it (being careful of errors this time).
- Reread your letter
Read your letter aloud to see if it makes sense and if the emotions you wanted to go through are there. Imagine reading it to your partner, would he understand its meaning? Don’t hesitate to eliminate any phrases that sound false or exaggerated.
- Present the letter
Choose romantic paper or perfume a simple A4 sheet and leave the letter in plain view for your partner to find it easily. If when you get back you expect kisses and hugs but he plays “I don’t know what you’re talking about”, then he just hasn’t read your note.