In this article, we will discuss relationships and specifically the topic of soul mates . We will look at who soul mates are, how to recognize such a soul mate , including a test that will help you with this, as well as instructions on how to find them and much more.
This article is inspired by real stories (relationships) and you will also find our experience in this area. Therefore, do not forget to read until the end.
WHAT OR WHO IS A SOUL MATE?
What or rather who is a soul mate? Sometimes we meet people in our lives with whom we share a much deeper relationship. These relationships are on a much deeper level than we normally have with other people. We may even feel a certain connection and a feeling that we have known the person for a very long time. We see it in fairy tales, movies, songs, books and amazing stories. It’s about a soul mate. After all, there must be the right perfect counterpart for us. Or not?
We want to find the right person. With whom it will be true happily ever after. There has to be something like that. However, this ideal of a perfect relationship is just an illusion. In reality, no relationship is ideal. A relationship is about something better, more beautiful.
A soul mate is basically someone with whom we get along perfectly, we complement each other, we have the same hobbies, the same beliefs, and so we call him a soul mate. Soul mates basically have a very strong bond and are united by the feeling that they have known each other practically their whole lives. Our subconscious chose it that way. Thanks to this, we have a deeper relationship with the other person. And finding such a soul mate is easier than it might seem.
HOW DO I FIND A SOULMATE?
There are many aspects to finding your soul mate. Therefore, let’s look at the most common and important aspects that will help you discover your soulmate.
Warning, each relationship of two soul mates can look a little different and have different signs. Therefore, do not take these signs as dogma, or something that must be exactly according to the aspects listed below. These signs will also differ from whether it is a partnership and love relationship or a friendship and family relationship. The aspects mentioned below will mainly relate to partner and love relationships of soul mates.
- A SOUL MATE HELPS YOU GROW
Your soulmate is constantly pushing you forward and wants to see you grow. She likes to support you in your goals and dreams. He shares with you your joy of your achievements and wishes you only the best in your life. This is how you like to push each other. And you don’t feel any jealousy that one did better than the other. You just share your happiness in success together and it doesn’t matter who succeeded. You are proud of your mutual achievements. You like to support, share and help each other like this. You wish each other success.
You support and complement each other. You are the best teachers for each other and therefore the mirroring between you is stronger and more intense than in a normal relationship. Therefore, this relationship offers you a great opportunity to grow and become the best version of yourself.
- FEELING LIKE YOU’VE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOREVER
You feel like you’ve known each other since time immemorial. Even though you’ve known each other for maybe a year, you both feel like it’s been much longer. You both have this feeling and you can’t shake it. You just feel like you’ve known each other for a very long time. And thanks to this, the relationship also becomes much deeper and more harmonious. You also actually have a sense of security because of this. You feel quite secure in this relationship because you feel that you know each other so well and forever that no one can change that. And with someone else, the second counterpart is hard to find.
When you look into the eyes of your soulmate, you feel like you’ve known each other forever. And no wonder, because it comes from your intuition. Just connect to your feelings, your inner source and it will tell you if it is your soul mate, your intuition never lies. You just need to connect with it and learn to work with it.
- SOULMATE AND CONNECTION
Just look into each other’s eyes and you already know what the other is thinking. And it’s not just about thoughts. You feel connected to each other. Maybe you can sense how the other person is feeling even when you are miles apart. Or you feel something is wrong with him and then you call and it really was. It’s great to be far from someone but still so close. It doesn’t matter where everyone is, you always feel connected to that person. That wonderful and magical connectedness that is very useful. Especially when the person in question is in danger.
You will feel very relaxed around your soulmate and allow yourself to be yourself and fully authentic. This is where certain games and masked theatrics stop being played, but you are honest with yourself, open and fully connected to share even the most secret desires. At the same time, you open your heart and become fully vulnerable and open to unconditional love.
- OPENNESS AND SOUL MATES
You feel very safe around him. You are therefore relaxed and completely open. There’s nothing you won’t tell each other. You were able to tell yourself every secret because you felt that he was exactly the person who could know, because your secrets were completely safe with him. You are not faking anything, you are fully yourself and feel accepted by this person. A soulmate allows you to be completely open and finally confess.
- YOU HAVE A SPECIAL BOND
Those around you must have noticed your connection. Your relationship with each other is working perfectly fine. You complement each other and there is a wonderful interplay between your collaboration. When you do something together, you can use your strengths. You know very well who has what strength and weakness, and you also know what incredible power it creates when you come together and start working together. You are such a well-matched pair that are inseparable.
Kindred spirits achieve far greater results in business. In general, if two soul mates come together and direct this energy towards one goal, there is nothing they cannot accomplish together. That’s why they create something that is completely unique, other “perfect” and it doesn’t matter if it’s business, art or anything else. The ingenuity of this pair knows no bounds.
- YOU ARE NOT JEALOUS
When it comes to love connections, you can’t be jealous. You have 100% trust with each other. And this trust is here naturally. Even if your counterpart is surrounded by a much more attractive person than you, it will still leave you cold. Because you know that what is between you is far stronger and greater than what a far more attractive person offers to your soul mate. You have mutual trust between you. You know that nothing can just happen.
Jealousy is unnecessary because you believe that what you have and share with each other is far more than what anyone else can offer each of you. You see it the same way, and trust in this relationship is naturally there from the beginning and it’s up to you how you deal with it, but be careful, the more fragile this trust is.
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- YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING BETTER BECAUSE YOU HAVE IT
You feel that he is the best person you could have just met. And he is the one person who is simply irresistible to you. He is perfect for you with his faults and he is simply yours. He is simply the most ideal partner at the moment. And you just don’t want anyone else anymore and you have no desire to be with anyone else. In imagining the opposite sex, only he is in your mind. Everything is just about him.
The problem usually arises when soul mates break up. Suddenly the hard reality comes and you find that you can’t reconcile and basically you don’t even want a “classic ordinary relationship” anymore, which is superficial and lacks that deeper bond. You’re missing something, that affinity, that connection. you will tend to keep looking and eventually you may never meet it again.
So appreciate what you have right now. Be grateful for your relationship, for what you are going through right now and work on your relationship. A relationship is like a garden, if you take care of it, it will give you a harvest, but if you don’t take care of it, only weeds will grow there. It’s the same with relationships – what you put into relationships, you get back.
- YOU COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER
Both of you have some differences. But if you combine your flaws and strengths, you are one super person. Such an addition can bring a lot of fruit to your life and business. If you learn to use your strengths and weaknesses then you can get the most out of it. And of course, you don’t have to be your soul mate to play to your strengths. We can do this in any relationship. That’s what we did and it’s absolutely amazing. We’ve translated that into our business. Everyone has a place to attend to. Such a place where our strengths will be used. It’s the best thing you can do in your relationship whether you’re soul mates or not.
- YOU HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS
You have similar interests and because of this you spend more time together and you will be very happy for such company. Naturally, you will spend time together and it will fill and connect you much more. You are glad to have such a significant other by your side. This gives you a higher chance of your relationship lasting longer than relationships where they don’t share hobbies.
Not only do you have common and similar hobbies, but the same usually applies to your goals and life path. Mostly, you both want the same thing out of life. You have the same or similar dreams, visions and goals. All this deepens your relationship even more and brings you together. Suddenly, your relationship takes on a new dimension and life becomes so much more exciting because you can share so much in common, including interests, goals, and your life’s journey. By combining two energies in one path, it can bring something absolutely incredible and indescribable, after all, that’s why you can read these lines, because Jirka and I got together and built this website, from which you can draw information, inspiration and much more.
- SOUL MATE AND HEALING
Your relationship is focused on healing. You both feel the desire and lust to better nourish your body, mind and soul. You may be more interested in eating, meditation , sports, creativity and much more. But also comes the constant repetition of patterns of behavior. Something we don’t like and it happens regularly in your life.
Healing comes through a deep and strong bond in this relationship. Intense mirroring forces you to work on yourself and the relationship. Stop playing the victim all the time and start creating. There are researches and studies that confirm the positive influence of satisfied and deep relationships on our mental and physical health. There is conclusive evidence that the quality of relationships has a direct effect on longevity .
- YOU HAVE SIMILAR BELIEFS
You have the same outlook on the world and on life. You have similar belief systems and convictions and that’s why you get along so well. This is the best way to identify a soulmate. Your subconscious mind is simply compatible with your soulmate’s subconscious mind. We choose partners in our lives subconsciously. Therefore, the key lies in your subconscious mind, which needs to be reprogrammed and set up correctly in order to achieve the desired results. The subconscious determines how we choose our partners .
Your subconscious mind controls 95% of your life. It determines your habits, reactions, how you make decisions and much more.
HOW TO FIND YOUR SOUL MATE
It is important not to push. The worst thing you can do is to search desperately for your soulmate. If you push it, then you will never have such a relationship. You’ll be waiting forever, so there’s nothing worse than clinging and pushing. It is best to let it go, stop pushing, clinging to it and creating excessive actions. To find your soulmate, it is ideal to do these few things, which you will find in the next phase of this article.
It is also important to realize that clinging to something, including an ideal partner (soulmate), comes from lack. If we want something, it’s because we don’t have it yet and we miss it. This comes from lack and thus we attract more lack. Clinging, wanting, and pushing for an outcome results in us sending out the energy of lack and despair.
