A relationship needs a lot of pampering, and more when there is distance between. When there are kilometers of separation, contact, kisses, hugs are missing. So communication is essential for it to work. Fortunately, thanks to technology, we now have more means than ever to be in contact with the people we have far away .
For a distance relationship to work, the first thing is to put yourself in the other person’s place. If she is gone, she is going to face many changes and a totally new life, and you have to be there to cheer her up. But if it is you who leaves, it is important that you make your partner feel that she is still an important part of your life.
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And all this is achieved thanks to communication. Therefore, in this article we give you some tips so that you can talk to your partner without being overwhelmed and without fear.
Keep constant contact
As we have said, technologies now allow us to be closer to the people we love. Now all you have to do is pick up your mobile to talk to someone who is on the other side of the world . Therefore, you can use social networks and instant messaging applications to be in constant contact.
WhatsApp messages are a good way to talk, but take advantage of all the opportunities. Video calls are closer, and you can schedule them to do things together, like eat or even take a walk.
If you want to try something more romantic, there are also specific applications for remote couples. If you are interested, you can take a look at them in our article to give a romantic surprise to your distance relationship .
Permanent, but not burdened
Maintaining constant contact does not mean being absolutely all the time calling your partner. It is good that the calls have a certain frequency and even speak every day, but you also need to have your space so as not to get overwhelmed or tired.
Find the perfect moment, may it go well for both of you. Turn your calls into an expected moment, an important event in your days. For that, it is better to dose and not burden, and the same with messages. Constantly trying to talk to someone is a sign of insecurity, and insecurities can play tricks on the relationship.
Also, you have to understand that sometimes the other person may not feel like talking, either due to fatigue or a bad day. Finding a good time is not just about the schedule, but knowing when the other person will be responsive and upbeat.
Don’t force the conversation
Maybe on some occasion this thought has crossed your mind: What if I run out of things to talk about? Do not worry about this. You can talk about anything from the last chapter of the series that you are following to what you ate that day. The important thing is not to force it, let the conversations flow. Es normal si un día no tenéis temas fascinantes de los que hablar, y tampoco es necesario que cada vez que habléis paséis horas en el teléfono.También es esencial la confianza. Los momentos que paséis hablando tienen que ser especiales y divertidos; tienen que ser el mejor momento del día. Por eso, deja las inseguridades de lado y disfruta. Evita los pensamientos sobre infidelidades y los celos, ya que si tu pareja está contigo es porque te quiere, y las sospechas pueden acabar con la relación.
But above all, it is necessary that your partner is clear about your feelings. Make him feel that he is still very important in your life and that you love him , although without weighing him down. Nor is it necessary to make a great romantic gesture, since small things can convey much more, and with distance details become more important. A good way to tell him how you feel is to create a personalized song to dedicate to someone who is far from telling your story. It will be a unique detail that will not be expected and that will excite you. Plus, you can listen to it whenever he misses you.
If you take care of yourself, your relationship can be very strengthened, and if you overcome the distance, you can do anything. But also remember that maintaining a relationship is a two-person job. Do you have a distance relationship? Have these tips been helpful to you? Tell us in the comments, we can’t wait to read it!
