Those who know women know that most of them are “multitasking”, intelligent and also much more resistant to certain challenges than men, such as medical treatments and other things that, for men, are very frightening.
Women, however, have some weaknesses (as do men), weaknesses that can damage relationships.
Men do not say that “women are all the same”, as women do with men, however, there are several attitudes and behaviors of women, which are found in the vast majority of them, that can damage the relationship and put everything to lose. The men, then, nicely, can suggest some things to their loved ones, so that things go better between the two of them.
The Female Authority blog has many ideas of what can ruin a relationship. These are “details” that women need to take care of, so that, instead of bringing the man they love closer to them, they do not throw him even faster in the arms of another woman.
8 “touches” your wife needs
- Don’t “stick” too much
Very well (if not already know what can happen !!!), the husband must show his wife that he needs to have his space, just as the wife also needs to have her space. Men like to play football, talk to friends, go fishing, etc., and that is not why they stop liking their wife less. If the wife is stuck like gum and is patrolling her husband for 24 hours, it becomes suffocating for him and very bad for the relationship, no matter how much love there is between them.
- Don’t complain too much
Just try to explain to your wife that neither of you are perfect, so both of you must have infinite patience with each other for the relationship to work out. The woman who wants peace of mind needs to know that men are different from women (thankfully, because they complement each other). And most men are not very sensitive, they take a long time to like (if they ever manage to…) “Discuss Relationship”, and other things that women would like men to do. If the woman complains about everything, the man gets more and more upset. Nobody likes women or men who are very “grumpy”.
- Don’t change your mood unexpectedly and for no apparent reason
In an article by CAAyres , “10 signs that you are destroying your marriage”, the author draws attention to the fact that if the woman (or the man) “Blows up about anything, saying things you should never say, abusing psychologically and emotionally and bringing an unbearable climate in living with the other will not help the relationship at all, nor solve the problem itself. Seek self-control. If you can’t, seek expert help ”.
- Don’t spend too much on unnecessary things
One of the biggest complaints of men (often unfounded) is that their wives spend a lot of money on superfluous things. They say, exaggeratedly, that what “they earn with a spoon, the woman throws out the window with a shovel”. Exaggerations aside, the woman (who is the thinking part of the home, usually), should think much more about the most important things, before spending the money of both or just the husband. In fact, in any case, the money must always belong to both – whether the husband works, or the wife, or both, even if one of the two does not work outside the home. Whenever possible, savings should be considered for the difficult days that always come.
- Not listening carefully
One of the biggest problems in relationships is the lack of communication or garbled communication. If there is no dialogue in a relationship, it is unlikely that living together will be pleasurable for both. Both of you must learn to listen to your spouse, but really listen , not just pretend to hear. Sometimes men speak little, less than necessary, because their wives do not listen to what they say, so they give up. Listening with your heart, then, is fundamental! Another thing that is linked to this same problem is the fact that the wife thinks she is a psychic , and speaks and does things for what she thinksthat the husband is thinking, without talking to him. The result of this “achometer”, from both women to men and men to women, can be very stressful for marriage. Speak, ask, and listen carefully: only then will both know what the other thinks and wants.
- Being moody all the time
Men in general are more “kid” and childish than women, and have a somewhat aggressive sense of humor at times. The woman, who is usually more mature than the man, often does not respond well to her partner’s mood, generating unnecessary fights. The woman needs to have more patience with the man, to enter into his game, although she thinks it is childish, always bearing in mind the greatest good, which is peace in the family and a strong relationship between the two.
- Not liking the way a husband acts with his children
Again, it is important to note that men think and act differently than women – in almost everything. When a man goes to play with his son, for example, he will play in a way that is sometimes frightening for his wife, who is too careful with everything (sometimes exaggeratedly). The father wants to prepare his son to be virile and strong, so he tries to do activities and games with the son for this purpose, which can scare or worry the wife. If it is not a case of clear danger to life, the wife needs to be less frightened by the husband’s play with the children.
- Getting “headache” too many times
Men need sex, usually, much more than women, to feel good and “manly”. If the woman, because she is very tired due to the busy day, or because she is upset with her husband, keeps running away from him, or even “fasting” to “punish” him (consciously or unconsciously), such behavior may not be good for the relationship: the man will be frustrated many times, he will lose self-confidence because he will think that his wife does not love him anymore, he may even pay less at work because he will be stressed, etc. I do not advocate here that the woman is always “at the disposal” of her husband, but that she has common sense and remember that sex, for a man, is something that moves his head too much, for better or for worse. A very frustrated man, sexually, is certainly not the same man he could be,
Therefore, here are some suggestions for women, which can also serve for men (in some cases), so that the relationship is more satisfying.