Making mistakes you learn but, let’s face it without fear of denial, learning is a continuous process, avoiding mistakes is not only not possible but not even desirable if the final goal is to grow, where growing implies only moving forward with a balance that allows you to face life, keeping up with all that living entails.
The happiness is a toy for children, adults should understand that it is a concept whose sole purpose is not making us get in touch with real life, giving us a dowry frustration and anxiety excess performance. Being happy is not a right and no law or constitution will protect us from the bad weather of life. Wealth and power do not give access to inner well-being and, while understandably desirable, those who have it usually do nothing but try to accumulate more.
Something is not right. If you do not find a limit to feeling good, it is certainly not because it does not exist but simply because you move it from time to time, the goal becomes bigger and bigger and moves away. Our abilities are finite and cannot develop indefinitely, which desire can . Being happy is a possibility that occurs every now and then, lasts a few moments or a little more, we are able to recognize that we are well only to the extent that we know how bad we have been and can still be.
There is a way to feel good , despite the fact that things do not always go we would like to, indeed it is precisely when we realize that the difficulties will not fail that we face them with the right spirit, without wasting too much time getting depressed, just enough. . The only long-term profitable investment that can be made in life are relationships , all of them, none excluded, even those we consider wrong, confront us with our mistakes more than the more reassuring others do.
Thinking about it, another good investment is books , read until your eyes close and curiosity allows it. If relationships are risky, books can be risky as well, but at least they don’t move from where we left them off and they never give back to us badly.
You need the wounds to move forward, that’s what makes you strong and makes you different. In our diversity , we find the opportunity to feel like everyone else. Contradiction is daily bread for our surface feeling, if we then have the luck or find the courage to go deeper, what we thought contradictory are only our most authentic feelings and thoughts, we believe it is wrong to give them a voice and we pay for them. the consequences. No rules are imposed, except those of feeling.
Mistakes are just things with meaning in disguise, you have to give them the right time to trust and open up to us for what they really mean.