Do you want to get to know a woman a little better or do you need questions for a woman you have known for a long time? Tired of the same old secular questions? We’re here to help with a list of interesting and interesting questions to ask a girl. These are not your usual questions, and some of them can be quite profound.
These questions will definitely generate interesting conversation. You can choose the ones that you like, or you can just ask them all. I have added a few comments on how to use each question and some possible ways to discuss it. You can read the comment or just skip it.
These questions are great as standalone questions to ask a girl, but for a really great conversation, you’ll want to ask her lots of follow-up questions.
Enjoy a great conversation, you can thank me later!
A list of questions to ask a girl
This first list of questions to ask a girl is a great place to start. Each question has some comment that can help with the questions, but feel free to ignore the comment if you like. There are also many more great questions to ask the girl without comment below the first set.
So, without further ado, here is our best list of unique questions to ask a woman to find out better here.
- Where were you last?
I won’t say what she came up with for this question. You can get creative or answer literally. Either way, this will probably take a little thought, but may lead to a really good answer.
- What are you completely done with?
So, with this question, there is really no way to predict what she will say, because there are many different ways this question can go. She can talk about a current hobby or fashion, she can talk about a friend, in fact it can be anything.
But no matter what she talks about, we all like to talk about things that annoy us, and she will too!
- To what memory do you just go back?
Perfect for learning a little more about her. Whether it’s a serious memory or just one of those fleeting things that sometimes stay with us, in any case, this is a wonderful window into her world.
Only one-on-one though, this one can get really serious in a rush, depending on which memory she chooses to share.
- What’s the most immature thing your parents do?
It doesn’t matter how old someone is, they still do immature things. Sometimes these things are silly and funny, sometimes they are more selfish or hurtful.
Anyway, this is a question she has probably never asked before and could lead to some really interesting answers!
- What is the most unusual fear you have?
A question that can get really funny or really weird. Anyway, this is a funny question that people usually like to answer. Who knows, you can share an unusual fear!
- What’s your favorite TV show?
Of course, this is a really common question, but it’s great because if you are on the show too, you have tons of topics to talk about. And if you haven’t seen it yet, you have a good show to watch. Plus, if you don’t know anything about this, she will probably happily tell you about it.
- What’s the most ridiculous argument you’ve ever had?
I almost guarantee it will lead to a funny story. One that she will love to tell and you will love to listen to. I’m sure both of you have a lot of ridiculous reasoning, especially if you have brothers and sisters.
- What would you like people to stop asking you?
At every stage of your life, you hear questions over and over again. Whether it’s questions about your future, questions about life circumstances, or questions about personal belongings. Everyone is asked the same questions over and over.
- What life lesson has taught you the greatest lesson?
More serious question, but it might be a really good conversation starter. Plus, you’ll learn more about what makes her who she is, and why she is who she is now.
- What is becoming more socially acceptable?
You can find out what movements it supports or not. But in fact, this question is more about starting an interesting conversation about society.
Just remember, it’s okay that people have different points of view than you do. This is not an argument. You are not trying to convince her that you are right.
- What paintings or paintings have influenced you a lot?
It is also one that she has probably not been asked about before, and she may have never thought about it. But I almost guarantee that examples will come to her mind when you ask her a question. This is a pretty cool question because you can pull pictures / draw onto your phone. You will probably see some cool pictures that you have never seen before.
- What character in the movie or book do you most resemble?
If nothing else, this question will tell you how she looks at herself or who she wants to be like. It’s always good to know, and it’s always fun to think about the same. There is a reason why these tests are so popular on social media.
You can split the question into two parts: which character do you think you like best, and which one do you think you really are alike. Or translate the conversation into what books and films she does. You can also talk about which characters are the most interesting or unique.
- What part of your culture are you most and least proud of?
Our culture is a large part of who we are, and it is no different. It might go a little deeper, but it’s definitely fertile ground for a good conversation. So dive into cultural issues and see where you both have the same views and where you disagree. There will be many chances for follow-up questions. Just remember, listen and ask questions; don’t just think about the next thing you’re about to say.
- What is the worst and the best in a woman?
A great question that she probably has something to say about. If you are overwhelmed by women’s things, you may be tempted to give him a chance. But who knows, you might actually learn some things that you didn’t know. And plus they have to live with a bunch of butt pain that goes on with their body, the least we can do is learn a little about it and be grateful that we don’t have to deal with it (I’m assuming you’re a guy, reading this, but I could be wrong).
Chances are many to have additional questions answered to find out more, but yes, when it comes to bodily things, you may not want to pry too much. But the good thing about being a woman is great to ask questions. You can also talk about what is good about being a guy.
- What random stranger has had the greatest impact on your life?
This is one that she will probably take a while to think about because this is not a common question. But answering it can be a lot of fun and can also be thought provoking. In addition, she will tell a story about her past and how it affects who she is today; which is always good to know.
Continue the conversation; be sure to ask more details about her story, ask about other random strangers who have influenced her life, or tell her about a random stranger who has had a big impact on your life.
- What achievement are you proud of that most people would find stupid or weird?
This question is a great way to learn more about who she really is and what she finds interesting / funny. If the girl you are talking to is a girl, you can use this information to create a game / competition that only you and her play, or it might prove useful for future gift ideas. However, she will answer this question, and you will probably learn something new and interesting about her. Remember to ask a lot about the details.
- In what period of history was the best fashion?
Not all girls are in fashion, but there are a lot of them. Even if she’s out of fashion, she might still like this question. She may have an opinion, but I can almost guarantee no one ever asked her. To expand the conversation, you might ask if different time periods were better for different genders.
- What stupid or funny thing makes you afraid or scares you off?
This is a funny question that doesn’t really go deep into deep fears, but can still elicit strong reactions. You can talk about why this thing scares her and if she has any funny stories about what she is afraid of. You can also move the topic into more serious fears if you want to go a little deeper. But feel free to keep it light and talk about humorous fears.
- How quickly do you jump to conclusions about people?
This is a great question to find out more about how she views other people and what her stereotypes are. To continue the conversation, you can ask her what she thought of you when she first saw or met you. Or you can ask her what the iconic signs are for a good and bad person.
- How would the world change if there really were superheroes and supervillains?
This is a question for making creative juices and I’m sure you both can think of some fun and interesting situations that would arise if superheroes / villains existed. Surely the girl you are talking to may not be too keen on the subject if they don’t like comics or watching superhero movies. But with how popular superhero movies are, it’s likely she’ll love this question. If she doesn’t like these types of movies, you might want to skip this movie.
- What is your strategy for survival after an apocalyptic epidemic?
Another one that’s a little behind the wall, but I’m sure we all thought about it. Especially with how popular post-apocalyptic shows, movies and books are. This option is easy to develop into a long conversation because you can discuss the benefits of each strategy over each scenario. I mean, literally books have been written about it. So yes, there is a lot to talk about. Especially if you’re both in the post-apocalyptic genre.
- What is the most important change that needs to be made in your country’s education system?
This is a little more serious. But you can see how interested she is in social change and perhaps get an idea of her political beliefs. Or you might find that she doesn’t really care about it. This is good information anyway. You can easily expand this question by mirroring different ideas from each other and talking about the merits of each idea.
- What do you think you will regret not starting now in the future, and what do you already regret not starting earlier?
About procrastination. Yes, we all do it. This will let you know how much she is saving, as well as let you know what some of her goals are and what she thinks is important. Try not to find fault with her answers because, firstly, she probably already feels bad about this, and secondly, you probably have things that you should have already started. If your goals are the same, this is a great way to start a conversation about what you both would like to achieve in the future. It is also a great opportunity to complain about how busy the gift is.
- If you could put your brain in a robot and live forever, wouldn’t you?
A couple of big philosophical questions wrapped up in a funny hypothetical question. You can talk about what makes a person a person. Or you can talk about the merits and demerits of life indefinitely. Or you could just talk about how cool it would be to decorate a robot’s body with lasers!
- If you could replace the handshake as a greeting, what interesting new greeting would you replace it with?
It’s a pretty silly question, but it can be a lot of fun. Plus it’s doubly fun when you both try different greetings. Try secret handshakes or high fives with elbows, you’re only limited by your creativity.
- Who is the worst guest in your house and what did they do?
This is usually good for a funny story. And she will love it because it will give her a chance to reveal one of her good stories. Encourage lots of detail and ask lots of questions.
- When is the fastest time and when is the slowest?
What does she like and what is she bored? If you don’t know well, now you will know! For follow-up questions, you can ask for other examples, or you can guide her through actions to see which ones she finds tedious and which ones make time fly by.
- What always sounds like a good idea at the time, but rarely?
It’s just a fun mental exercise to come up with humorous / real examples. And I almost guarantee there are some good stories of bad decisions from both of you. See what you can think of and see who has the craziest stories.
- Are people fundamentally different from animals? If so, what makes us different?
Wow, what is this serious question doing here? Yes, be prepared for a conversation filled with landmines such as religion and other strongly held beliefs. This question is not one that can be easily dismissed, so choose the right time or just skip it. It’s okay to keep the conversation light, but I’ve always liked good deep conversation. So dive in or let it go, it’s up to you.
- You can broadcast one sentence for every TV channel and radio in the world and translate it into the language of each country. What sentence are you talking about?
A question that just requires creativity. You can come up with many suggestions that will have many effects. You can take it in a more humorous direction, take this seriously or something else. However, she wants to answer a question, remember to always ask why and find out more. Come up with a few more examples and try to think of which sentence will have the greatest impact or give you the funniest result.
- What fact are you really wondering about that more people don’t know about?
Hey, who doesn’t like learning new facts? Try to come up with facts that the other person doesn’t know. You will learn something new and be able to communicate. Just remember to talk about every fact, and not just let the facts of rapid fire.
- What are you most passionate about and what would you like to be more passionate about?
I like this question because it touches on the essence of who a person is, or at least how he sees himself. You can see what really interests her and what kind of person she would like to be. This one might even give you an idea of the direction she wants to take her life in.
- What’s the best comeback you’ve ever heard?
A really funny and often funny question. Chances are she has a pretty good story about her amazing comeback. Plus, you can tell any comeback stories you know. I mean, who doesn’t like hearing about the great comeback?
- Whom have you not seen for a long time and with whom have you not talked and hope that everything is fine with them?
Another question that goes a little deeper into the past. Perfect for getting to know her a little better. Get ready for a little flashback. Of course, this is probably no one you know, but this is someone who is or was important to her.
- What have you never been able to do well?
Sharing mistakes and flaws can be a great way for two people to get closer. Just make sure you are supportive and don’t laugh at what she can’t do, it ruins the whole question.
- Who is the most humble person you know?
Kind of a random question, but it might give you some idea of the people she chooses to surround her with, or the people she is looking at.
- What is the stupidest reason the person you know has completely lost him?
Another of those questions to pull out a good story. I’m sure you have a funny story about someone losing it to share. Great for laughing and continuing a conversation.
- What is perhaps the most annoying thing?
We are all annoyed, now you can see that she is annoying. It’s probably a good idea to try and avoid what she finds annoying. And there’s a good chance you both share something that you find annoying, and it’s always good to find something in common.
- What’s the strangest tradition in your family?
I have come to believe that no family is completely normal. Every family has strange traditions and customs. Often people don’t even know that other families are doing or not doing a particular ritual or tradition.
That’s why it’s the perfect question to learn more about her family and how she grew up, as well as talk about her family.
- If you could choose someone alive or dead, who would you choose to lead our country?
Political, perhaps, but this one will probably end up with a more creative response. He has a lot to say about the direction in which she would like the country to move, or that she is not into politics.
- Which application on your phone would you like to use more?
A slightly different take on the common question “what’s your favorite / most used app”. We all have apps on our phones (usually self-help / learning apps) that we’re going to use but never get to.
Also this question is a great question for discussion of applications.
- Who was the most powerful crazy person you have met?
Kind of a strange question, I was arguing whether to include it on this list. But it can lead to an interesting story, so I decided to leave it in.
Feel free to skip this if you are not into it or you think she will find it interesting.
- Which world famous monument is not interesting for you to visit?
Fairly random question, but great for understanding what she’s not doing. This can definitely lead to some interesting answers and you will find out a lot more about how much she likes / dislikes the trip.
- What do you think people are only pretending to like or are deceiving themselves?
A perfect question to ask what trends or quirks she just doesn’t see the point in. This is definitely not a common question, but it can get some really interesting answers.
- What joke went too far?
This one can darken quickly depending on which story she chooses to tell. Just one on one. However, this is a great question that can lead to an interesting story.
- What are some of the telltale signs that a guy is creepy?
So, we all know people who seem a little creepy. So what manners make them seem creepy? Are they really creepy, or just a little socially awkward? This can really lead to a lot of conversation about how people see each other.
- What’s your very first memory?
A small question that probably won’t tell you much about her, but it’s still a fun question. We all love to talk about ourselves after all.
- What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve said or done about someone you fell in love with?
Get ready for some cringe. She might not want you to know, but if she does, it might be a really good question to tell you a good story. You might want to skip this one if you’ve just met her, but that’s great if you’ve known her for a while.
- Who is your favorite actor or actress?
Another question, which is a bit general, but ideal for exploring what films she plays. Also a great conversation starter if you also like one of the actors or actresses she mentions.
Besides, it is easy to spin this question into discussion of films. Because who doesn’t like movies?
- What doesn’t exist, but you desperately want / need it?
Perfect for some creative answers and blue sky brainstorming. It’s always fun to imagine what form the solutions to problems will take. In addition, both of you will receive empathy for problems currently without a solution.
151 additional questions to ask a girl
Additional questions to ask a girl (part 1)
- What are you most grateful for?
- What would you like to be able to live anew?
- How determined or indecisive are you?
- What kind of snack can you just not get?
- What is this during the golden age?
- What’s the worst phase you’ve gone through?
- What strange smell do you really like?
- What’s the best gag gift you’ve ever seen or received?
- Who do you make happy?
- What animal are you wondering is not extinct yet?
- What’s in your pockets now?
- What options would work if you can right-click people?
- What’s the best advice someone has given you?
- What do you love to do that is traditionally masculine?
- What did you eat regularly as a child, but now cringe at the thought of food?
- What have you recently learned that you really should have known?
- If you were an action movie, what accessories would you sell with?
- What car is so ugly that you are shocked that it was made?
- Do you prefer to keep warm when you are too cold or chill when you are too hot?
- What sentence can you say that makes sense now, but seemed insane 20 years ago?
- What’s the best practical joke you’ve pulled or seen?
- If you inherited a private jet from a stranger, what would you do with it?
- Which of your childhood was a common occurrence, but now it is quite rare?
- What’s so strange that you recommend everyone try it at least once?
- What country can you name, but apart from the name you know almost nothing about it?
- If you were given $ 5,000 to give the most happiness to most people, what would you do?
- What part of the culture or trend has disappeared but would like to see it come back?
- What innocent mistake you made had dramatic consequences?
Additional questions to ask a girl (part 2)
- What things are normal now, but will be valuable antiques a century later?
- Something awful that we humans have accepted because that’s the way things are; but really things shouldn’t be like this at all?
- If you heard every time someone said something good or negative about you, what would you choose?
- What do you think people automatically think of you when they look at you?
- Looking back on your life, what have you done that have brought you the most satisfaction?
- If you were forced to create a new dance move, what would it be and how would you name it?
- If everything were quantified, what statistics of life would you like to see for yourself?
- What would you really like to know when you were younger?
- What songs can you sing that I recognize from hearing two words from the song?
- If you were given $ 100,000, but it could only be used to improve your shower or bath, what improvements would you make?
- When was the last time you laughed so hard that you cried?
- What’s your story?
- What would you like to have more time?
- When was the last time you had a gut feeling for something that turned out to be right? How about a time when your gut feeling was wrong?
- What would you do if one day you woke up and every person was missing?
- What’s your “and then it got worse” story?
- What was your curiosity that killed the cat story?
- What’s the biggest lie someone has told you?
- What would be the worst thing to put in a piñata?
- What’s the most unpleasant sounding word?
- What happened when it happened, but now everyone seems to have forgotten about it?
- If you could devote your life to solving one problem, which problem would you choose?
- What kind of jobs are there because people are selfish?
- If many people believe that red symbolizes anger / passion, blue sadness, green envy, what feelings would some other colors, such as purple, turquoise, silver, or brown, represent?
Additional questions for the girl (part 3)
- What’s the strangest thing you’ve seen on someone’s phone?
- What’s your favorite way to meet new people?
- What areas of your life do you have high hopes for, and what are these high hopes?
- Who was the most spoiled person you have personally met?
- What’s the nicest accent in your language?
- Which website or app has completely changed your life for better or for worse?
- What makes you feel old?
- Who or was your biggest rival?
- What’s your favorite drug-free / alcohol-free level?
- What’s the worst thing you’ve heard when one person spoke to another?
- How do you feel about books?
- What do you really want to know?
- How different is the social environment for children in school now from 10 or 20 years ago?
- What was your most memorable dream or nightmare?
- What do you love about yourself?
- What jobs won’t be replaced by machines or computers anytime soon?
- What gets weirder the more you think about it?
- That you’re too old to put up?
- What sweet song do you love?
- What’s the funniest thing that you’ve convinced someone of the truth?
- What event would you like to know the whole and complete truth about?
- What have you recently become obsessed with?
- What’s the biggest waste of money you’ve seen?
- What surprises you?
- If you could only wear one outfit for the rest of your life, what would it be?
- What are some outdated customs that no longer make sense, but people still follow them just by tradition?
- What would be the cutest infestation in your home?
- What was the last disaster you prevented?
- What shouldn’t have happened but happened anyway?
Additional questions to ask a girl (part 4)
- When you were a child, what nonsense were you mortally afraid of?
- Apart from promotions or longer vacations, what is the best bonus the company can offer to employees?
- Where do you like to walk?
- If you knew that you would inexplicably drop dead in a year, what would you change in your life?
- What is the most furious thing you have to do or assemble?
- Which movie have you seen more than seven times?
- What is happening in popular culture now, which is taken very seriously, but in 20 years people will find it extremely stupid?
- What’s the worst example of curiosity – killing a cat you’ve seen?
- What skill do you want more people to spend on training?
- What will be the scariest text message to wake up?
- What actually happened, but seems absurd and unreal?
- Which complex fictional character really intrigues you?
- What personality traits are people proud of, but shouldn’t be?
- Most people want to be rich for one reason or another. Why do you want to be rich? What would be the biggest wealth benefit?
- What is your favorite design style? From architecture, interior design, art, cars, phones or anything else.
- What personality traits do you associate with certain names?
- What is romanticized in modern culture that shouldn’t be?
- What’s the worst book you’ve ever had to read in school?
- What always lets you down and what never fails?
- What’s the best way to tell someone to cheer them up when they’re feeling depressed?
- When you were a kid, what movie did you watch over and over?
- If you could view one person’s email without knowing who you would be spying on?
- When was the last / best moment when someone said something that, in their opinion, you did not hear or did not understand, but could?
- What did you completely change your mind about and go from believing in one thing to believing in exactly the opposite?
- What is the worst trait a person can have?
Additional questions for the girl (part 5)
- Which movie was great when it came out but couldn’t stand it?
- What movie did you start watching, expecting it to be terrible, but actually pretty good?
- What’s the next retro thing to hit again?
- What would you do if you knew that world war would start in three months?
- If you could know one truth about yourself, history, the world, or even the universe, what truth would you like to know?
- What would you do if you fell deeply in love with someone online but discovered that it was actually a government-created artificial intelligence that fled and now lives online?
- Something that no one wants to hear, but everyone should?
- What can you talk about all day?
- What’s so strange about you?
- What are you talking about?
- What was the most disappointing end of a great book / movie / game?
- Who is the happiest person you know?
- What is the most important thing that your textbooks are wrong or missing?
- What’s your favorite souvenir?
- What kind of clothes did you see that you desperately wanted?
- What’s your best ethical gray life hack?
- What’s your reason for getting out of bed in the morning?
- What would you do if someone left a duffel bag full of $ 2,000,000 on the back porch?
- If everything in your home was the same color, what color would you choose?
- Assuming you call inanimate objects, what are the inanimate objects that you own or do own are called? (i.e. cars, computers, shoes, etc.)
- What question have you always wanted to ask but were afraid to look stupid?
- What would your warning label say if everyone had one?
- What strange childhood fear do you still have?
- If you fell into a coma and woke up in the year 2120, what would you like to know first?
- What’s the best decision you’ve ever made?
Additional questions for the girl (part 6)
- What’s the most embarrassing thing that dropped out of your bag?
- What’s the funniest thing you’ve seen with a relative?
- What can only someone you grew up with understand?
- What would make the world more interesting if it were a different color?
- What are you thinking about in the shower?
- Which ice cream is best?
- What makes someone a “good” person?
- What stupid thing have you done in the last 24 hours?
- When did you do the double take?
- Have you ever worked in retail?
- What will the trailer for the movie about your life be like?
- What kind of old man would you like to be?
- Which is closer to the magic that actually exists?
- Why does it bother you for couples?
- If you could design an organ for yourself, what would it do and where would it go?
- If you had to choose your spouse based on just one question, what question would you ask?
- If money wasn’t an issue, what company do you think would be interesting to work for?
- What is the most polarizing question you could ask a group of your friends?
- Who of all who is still alive would you like to share your food with?