50 Questions To Ask In A Long Distance Relationship

Communication in a couple in a long-distance relationship is sacred .

It is she who brings the two individuals together, regardless of the kilometers, but also to get to know your partner better.

There are only two conditions to be fulfilled for this:

  • Openly exchange
  • Listen carefully

If these two conditions are met, then the couple will be much better able to survive at a distance , through communication.

If you lack inspiration, here is a list of 50 questions that you and your partner should answer together, from the Communication Without Borders guide .

Indeed, these are essential questions to assess the health of your love at a distance and which will allow you to learn more about the other.

So, try to answer each of these questions , without forgetting a single one and to detail each of your answers. Don’t just answer “yes”, “no” or “I don’t know”. The goal being to exchange, elaborate more.

50 Questions to Ask in a Long Distance Relationship

  1. Do you feel loved?
  2. At what point in our relationship did you feel the most loved?
  3. Do you trust me completely? Why ?
  4. Do you think I trustyou completely?
  5. Are you afraid that I am cheating on you?
  6. Are you afraid of cheating on me one day or another?
  7. When was the last time you felt jealousy? Why ?
  8. How can I make you feel even more loved when we’re not together?
  9. Do you regret having started this long distance relationship?
  10. What makes you doubt aboutour long distance relationship?
  11. Do you feel that sometimes being in a long-distance relationship limits you in your social and professional life?
  12. What’s the least thing you like least about a long distance relationship?
  13. What’s your favoritething about a long-distance relationship?
  14. How could I help you more in your projects?
  15. Where and when will we meet again the next two times?
  16. Do we have a sufficient budgetto see us again soon?
  17. How could we save or save money for our reunion?
  18. How can we improve our communication?
  19. Where are our communication habits(frequency, tools, etc.)? Should we change them?
  20. What would you like to learn about me that you don’t already know?
  21. What would you like us to discover?
  22. What ideas for activitiesor virtual dates would you like us to try?
  23. What are the next events and the next holidays that we could celebrate?
  24. What is the next step to take to move towards the end of this long-distance relationship?
  25. What is the main objectiveof our couple?
  26. Is living in a long distance relationship easier or harder than you thought ?
  27. What is our couple’s greatest weakness?
  28. What is the greatest strengthof our relationship?
  29. Where will we be in six months? A year ? Two years ?
  30. Where would you like to be in five years? In ten years ?
  31. When would you like us to end the distance?
  32. What do you reasonablythink we’ll end with the distance?
  33. Do you find that I am involved enough in our relationship?
  34. Are you fully involved in our relationship?
  35. Could we do more to reduce the distance?
  36. Are you looking forward to living together?
  37. Do you believe in love from a distance?
  38. If a friend of yours was hesitant to start a long-distance relationship, what would you recommend? Why ?
  39. What advice would you give to someone starting a long-distance relationship?
  40. Which of my qualitiesdo you prefer?
  41. What character trait would you prefer that I didn’t have?
  42. Does your family support you in this long distance relationship? Why ?
  43. Do your friends support youin your long distance relationship? Why ?
  44. Since the beginning of our relationship have you the feeling that our couple has grown? How? ‘Or’ What ?
  45. Do you feel like you’ve learned something from this relationship? What?
  46. What would you like to change in our relationship?
  47. What would you like to change about yourself?
  48. What are you most waiting for in the months and years to come?
  49. What are our goals as a couplefor the coming months?
  50. Are you happy despite the distance?


It’s okay if some of his answers surprise you .

After all, you’re not supposed to be able to read his mind.

However, if you have felt uncomfortable bringing up certain issues, it may be a good idea to go back and talk about them again , in order to avoid a potential argument.

If you succeed in overcoming taboos and providing concrete answers, then you will feel much more united and motivated.

… Do you want more ?

These 50 questions come from the new guide d’Amouradistance.fr, entitled Communication Without Borders .

If this list is not enough for you, then I invite you to discover 451 additional questions to bring couples closer together as a bonus of the complete guide .

But that’s not all ! You will also discover:

  • The 3 Indispensable Pillars of Long Distance Communication
  • The 16 Secrets of Healthy and Exciting Communication Despite Distance
  • How to Enrich Your Conversations, Inspire Your Partner and End Monotony
  • How To Save Your Couple From A Distance Through Communication


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