Your attitude really changes your reality. Oh, if everyone knew that was so. Changing one’s attitude does something magical with everything around it – things and people change too. If you start seeing things with a positive attitude, you will start seeing things that were invisible before.
Here are 13 tips to change your life attitude
1. You always have a choice. It does not matter what happens, you always have two choices. If you can not change something, you can always change the way you think about it. You can see a crisis as a total failure or as something to learn from.
2.The school has taught us not to make mistakes. Ugh how stupid. The best lessons in life come from mistakes and those who try fewer and fewer things in life often do so because they are afraid of making mistakes. On top of that, they get nothing new out of life and stop by. Try something new and take a big step forward.
3. Gratitude is an easy way to be happy in. We humans experience gratitude in snippets. We walk around grinning for most of the year until we find out that a colleague has cancer. Then suddenly we see how lucky we are. Then it flows slowly until the next external event makes us wake up again. Why not try to keep yourself awake all the time and remind yourself every day what you have to be grateful for. It makes life a lot easier.
4.Realize that 80-90% of everything you are afraid of will never happen. Fears are usually just monsters inside the head. And if they do now, they are seldom as painful or bad as you imagined. Worrying is very often just a waste of time.
5. Stop taking things so seriously and you make it so easy: Think about the impact that what just happened will have on your life in five years. Most bad things that happen to us are completely insignificant in five years.
6. Live more consciously. If you become more aware of how you live and the choices you make every day, you will feel more in control. Slowing down and making conscious decisions and not letting everything in life just happen to you will help you both simplify and appreciate life more.
7.Find your passion. Whether your passion is about a new job or a new hobby, find out what makes you so happy that you really want to throw yourself into it.
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8. Accept what you have. Some things in life can not be changed. If you have blue eyes, you may have brown contact lenses, but your eyes will still be blue. Accepting who you are and what you have that makes you unique will simplify your life.
9. Strengthen your strengths. Instead of constantly lashing out at yourself for your weaknesses, think about your strengths and make them even stronger.
10.Think about what you would like to do in life that you have not dared to do so far. Take a first small step towards doing so. After taking the first step, take one more and one more.
11. Find out what cheers you up when all is shit. Prepare it so that you can do it, bring it out or experience it the next time life sucks.
12. Compare yourself only with an earlier version of yourself, no one else.
13. What has happened has happened. That your father was an emotional person and your mother always criticized you no longer exists. It’s history. Build your life now and in the future. Let go of what no longer exists.
