One day you realize that you exist, that you are part of the world too, not by your will and you ask yourself who knows, we are here, by whose will. Then you turn thirty, you understand that you are not immortal and you realize that your body needs maintenance.
Then make a list of your behaviors and decide which ones to perpetuate and which ones to eliminate.
For example, here are some things that girls over thirty should stop doing.
#1 You should stop dating immature kids.
#2 Unless the goal is to have fun with a toy boy.
#3 Stop dwelling on your past mistakes. You are who you are because of them. Otherwise, you could have become like that pain in the ass of your colleague.
#4 Then fighting the past is useless. You have enough challenges to face in the present.
#5 You should stop wasting your time with people who suck your energy.
#6 You should stop putting off traveling.
#7 You should stop planning like you did as a child and turn those plans into reality.
#8 You should seek less and enjoy more what you have.
#9 You shouldn’t justify your mistakes by saying that you can learn from them.
#10 You should stop being paid less than your male colleagues.
#11 And you should refuse jobs where this happens.
#12 You should continue to take care of your beauty, even if you’ve had the same boyfriend for ten years.
#13 And stop using that cheap makeup you bought as a teenager.
#14 You should stop worrying about other people’s judgment.
#15 And consider their opinion for what it really is: just an opinion!
#16 You should stop having problems expressing your sexuality.
#17 Or feel insecure about your physical appearance. If your boyfriend dreams about Emily Ratajkowski when he sees you naked, that’s his business, the important thing is that he concentrates and makes you come.
#18 Stop pretending things are okay so you don’t hurt others.
#19 You should stop dating guys who don’t have real jobs, still live with their parents, and are trying to graduate. But they’re in no rush.
