Some are looking for a mother, others are glad that they are not under great demand. These eight qualities of women certainly attract weak men – it will not be superfluous to check yourself, especially if you are actively searching.
Diffidence
A weak man often blossoms next to an insecure woman. The lack of any authority and personal boundaries in his partner allows him to play by his own rules and assert himself at the expense of his beloved. The vocabulary of such a girl soon fills up with words like “abuse” and “gaslighting” – the gentleman shows himself in all his glory.
Refusal of help
There is no longer any need to enter a burning hut and stop the horses: modern strong women are able to prove themselves without risking their lives and with equal success do a rearrangement on their own, fix a washing machine and hang a shelf for cute trinkets. Strong men are not afraid of competition, they just do not feel the need for themselves, but weak men, on the contrary, are ready to allow their beloved to solve their and common problems on their own.
Fear of loneliness
The fear of loneliness can be so strong that the very presence of a partner seems a vital necessity, and his personal qualities fade into the background. Needless to say, a woman who is afraid of being alone is an ideal option for parasitism, from the point of view of weak men? No matter what she says, she will not be able to break off the relationship, which means she will endure it all her life. Do you recognize yourself? It’s time to have a serious talk with your partner!
Playing the role of a mother
Childhood passes, and the game of daughters and mothers follows life with a woman who sees motherhood as her main mission. The plastic doll in the hands is replaced by a living man on bail – how could it be otherwise, love and care go hand in hand. Who else will wash his sneakers after a walk and cook breakfast while he sweetly snores, finishing off precious morning minutes? Well, of course, you need to wash and iron his entire wardrobe. Becoming a mother is a worthy and wonderful goal, but in no case should you make a son out of your partner. Weak men are only looking for a new mother in women, and will gladly create a new unit of society on a full board basis.
Mystery
A mysterious lady is interesting to a weak man only because it is not scary to start communicating with her. The gentleman’s tender ego is safe: such a girl will not refuse directly. His illusion of control over the situation can last for a very long time. But such a union is unlikely to be strong, even if it becomes possible. After all, a mysterious woman and a guessing man do not understand each other at all, sooner or later the lack of true intimacy will become boring.
Forgiveness
Mutual understanding is, of course, a valuable thing. As is the ability to put yourself in your partner’s shoes. But sometimes it goes beyond the pale: a woman is ready to understand and forgive literally everything – from an affair to assault. But only complete weaklings allow themselves to behave like that. If this is your situation, stop looking for excuses for it. Give your partner a parting gift – allow him to take responsibility for his actions.
Vulgarity
Beautiful, overtly sexy women in clothes that are borderline decency are a weakness for most men. Note, it is a weakness, not a strength. Instincts include attraction, and either the moral “superstructure” is higher than the basic urges, or the man quickly (and willingly) loses control over himself. But if he is with you only for sex, then he can be strong only in bed, until he switches to a new object of desire.
Bright self-sufficiency
After a couple of unsuccessful romances, you can’t help but wonder: why all this suffering when it’s good to be alone? And it won’t take long to get used to this idea. Over time, a promising option in the form of a strong man appears on the horizon, but something goes wrong. Perhaps the problem is that a self-sufficient woman literally broadcasts to the world her inaccessibility and unpreparedness for a relationship – non-verbal signals and internal attitude work no worse than a wedding ring on the finger. A strong man respects someone else’s territory and understands when he is not welcome. Meanwhile, a weak man, on the contrary, is not against settling down to a guiding star. In the absence of stability and personal integrity, “soy” boys drop anchor in the quiet harbor of a stable partner without waiting for a clear invitation.