VISITING YOUR CYBER-BOYFRIEND OR CYBER-GIRLFRIEND FOR THE FIRST TIME

You met that person online and yours was immediate . From the first moment you felt the connection, you spent hours talking and it didn’t take you long to feel more than friendship. Although there was a problem: you don’t live in the same city . But despite the fears, you decided to try and start a relationship at a distance.
In a relationship that begins on the Internet you do not stop thinking about the moment when you will finally see your partner , especially if you do not know each other in person. You wonder how the first hug will be and if it will be everything as you had imagined. Maybe you even know the date and have a plan, and you just have to count the days until you are finally together.
But you may not know when you will see each other. If this is the case, in this article we are going to give you some tips to organize your visit and make it perfect.

Plan it easy

If you can not find a date to see you, perhaps the idea of ​​presenting a day in the city of your lover or in love without warning has crossed your mind . For you it is a most romantic idea, but think about it. If you have not seen each other yet, your partner may not like the surprise, since she may think that you do not take her into account. At the beginning of the relationship it is normal to want to be carried away by passion, but you have to control yourself and, above all, know yourself well.
You have to have empathy and respect your partner’s space. Not being able to see each other is frustrating, but understand that each of you has your life in your respective cities, and although it is difficult, you should not force it. Pressuring your partner can cause your relationship don’t last long ; This is a thing of two, and if you are not on the same level, it will not work.
Speak calmly and choose a day that suits both of you. Although it is far away, it will be an important date for both if it is the first time that you see each other as a couple . Be patient, you will see that in the end it will have been worth waiting for him.
Before staying, it is important that you make everything clear: how much time you can spend together (although later it may be more), if you are going to stay in a hotel or at home … This way you will avoid misunderstandings and uncomfortable situations.

Trip

Something is clear, and that is that a relationship that already begins at a distance ends up being expensive. Depending on where your partner lives, the trip can be very expensive, but there are ways to save, especially in transportation. If you’re traveling by train, plane or bus, look for tickets early to find deals. But if you are traveling on your own, you can consider the idea of ​​carpooling to save on gas, with friends or using an application. If visits become frequent, you will end up saving a lot of money.
Once there, you may have to find accommodation. If a hotel is very expensive, look for hostels or even hostels. They are usually much cheaper and if you are not going to stay long you will not need more. If not, there are websites where you can rent rooms in a house for a day or two, some even for free.

The encounter

The awaited day has arrived; you finally see each other. If this is the first time you have seen yourself off screen, you will be nervous and perhaps scared to death , but there is no reason to be. You are there because you connect and you like each other, so be natural and don’t worry about anything else. Although not everything goes as you imagined, focus on enjoying the moment. There is nothing more beautiful than seeing someone you love for the first time , and this will be a memory that you will keep forever.

Until you see each other, do something special for your partner that reminds them of you. The best thing in these cases are the details, those little things that mean more than something material . A good option is to create a custom song that says everything you feel. It will be something unique , just yours, and you can listen to it every time I miss you. It is one of those romantic gestures that are remembered forever.
You are more or less time together, the visits will become wonderful moments that you will save and value as few things. Therefore, try to make each time you see each other special, and make the most of every moment.

Are you going to see your partner soon? Tell us in the comments, we can’t wait to read it!

 

by Abdullah Sam
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