Sex is an essential element of the couple. Without him, two people would have a hard time creating intimate bonds and an atmosphere of complicity. Foreplay is all about sex, and a new trend has emerged to make it even hotter and longer lasting: sexting.
Sexting is the trend that couples looking for new ways to start their foreplay are using. But, what is sexting? It’s pretty simple, it’s about sending warm and intimate messages to your partner in order to sexually stimulate them.
So whether you’re looking to spice up your sex life by adopting a new way to heat up the heat between you or you’re a sexting pro, here are some tips to follow to drive your partner crazy for you.
How to succeed in sexting?
Before embarking on this new adventure, it is essential to establish some rules with your loved one. Indeed, you do not want one of your messages to be misunderstood or to turn against you. Here are some rules to follow for successful sexting:
- Establish rules
In order to avoid sending a sext to your partner during a business meeting or when he is surrounded by his family, set yourself some parameters and rules to follow. This will give you the opportunity to create an environment of trust and a space of freedom that will allow you to let your imagination run free!
- Stay in your comfort zone
When you send a sext, you become vulnerable. So even if you tell your partner how horny you are feeling, don’t go overboard. For example, if you’ve never practiced bondage before, you don’t need to become a virtual dominatrix. In order to avoid any embarrassment and regret, do not go into a show, be yourself!
- Start slowly
Sexting is like foreplay: you have to start slowly to raise the temperature, little by little. You don’t have to be vulgar, instead take the time to run your imagination on your next date, for example.
- Uncover the mystery
In order for your partner to be titillated by your sext, you must create a certain ambiguity and a little mystery. The goal is to make them want to use their imaginations to fill in the blanks, not to put everything on a platter.
- Give something concrete to your partner
You can send him a sext defining what you would like to do to him that night, or what you would like him to do to you. Sending her a suggestive photo can also be a way of stoking the fire because the anticipation created is going to be as exciting as the act itself.
- Work on your memory
Tell him you were turned on by what he did to you the last time you were together: let him remember your night and look for the highlight!
- Give feedback
You may have been very turned on by your partner’s sexting, but remember, they can’t see you. It is, therefore, important that you tell him how you feel. This will encourage him to continue his efforts!
- Never underestimate the power of a suggestive photo
You don’t need to send vulgar or even pornographic photos. Suggestive images have a lot more power than you might think. You can, for example, send her a picture of the underwear you’re going to wear to your next date, your lips, or your neck. You want to use his imagination, right?
- Never show your head
You can safely send suggestive photos without showing features that would make someone recognize you (you can never be too careful). Revenge pornography shouldn’t exist but it does exist: don’t take chances even if you trust your partner.
- Sexting on your terms
Sexting isn’t for everyone. If you feel like they’re making you uncomfortable and not giving you any feelings of joy or excitement, stop! Reserve your sensual side for one-on-one dates.
Now that you know how to do good sexting, here are some ideas for messages that will help you turn the heat up.
50 sexting ideas
The best sexts to send if you’ve just met:
- I want you to undress me with your teeth!
- Come to my house; bring handcuffs!
- All day long I have only thought about your naked body.
- I had an erotic dream, you were its hero. come to my house to make it happen.
- I just showered, help me get dirty again.
- I’m going crazy imagining you inside me!
- Tonight, I’m the boss.
- I want you to look me in the eye when you squirt.
- Can you come by the house to tell me if my skirt is too short?
- I want to ride you like a pony.
Sexting when you’ve been together for a few months:
- I want to watch you take your clothes off slowly.
- Do you think you can spank me that will leave a mark?
- I just learned a new technique for performing oral sex, do you want me to show you?
- Do you want us to try anal sex?
- I felt turned on all day, do you think you can come and finish the job?
- Tell me the dirtiest thing you did, I bet I can do better.
- The only thing I want for dinner tonight is you!
- how many times can we have sex tonight before you get tired? We should investigate this!
- Tell me what do you think about when you touch yourself?
- I’m going to use your face as a chair.
Sextts to send if you’ve been together for several years:
- I have been a bad girl, you have to come home to punish me.
- Pick me up at a bar tonight. You will recognize me: I will be the girl without underwear.
- I just bought a new vibrator, help me run out of batteries.
- You can do whatever you want to me tonight.
- I have whipped cream all over my body; come and lick it.
- I want you to relax: tonight I’m going to do whatever you want to you.
- I can’t wait for you to come home; I will wait for you naked on my bed.
- I can’t stop thinking about last night. come home quickly so we can start again.
- I just bought myself a sexy outfit, come home quickly so I can show it to you!
- Tell me all the dirty things you want me to do to you.
Sexting when you’ve been together for a decade or more:
- I can’t wait to whisper in your ear whatever I want to do to you.
- I can’t work because I only think about your breath on my neck.
- I wish you were there so I can show you what I’m thinking.
- Tonight, we’re playing teacher and I’m going to teach you a hell of a lesson!
- I touch myself while waiting for you to come home.
- I have been a bad girl. What’s your plan to teach me a lesson?
- I love when you pull my hair!
- Cancel all your plans tomorrow morning, I’ll keep you awake all night.
- Imagining you touching me makes me want you!
- tonight I’m going to lick every inch of your body.
The best sexts when you are married:
- Too bad you’re not here tonight because I would have thrown myself on you.
- I wear the lingerie you love so much, come and take it off!
- When I close my eyes, I can feel your hand caressing my thighs and moving up under my skirt.
- guess what I’m thinking. A clue ? it involves my tongue and you moaning.
- I am completely naked and I think of you. Want a preview?
- I want you to stick me to the wall and take me savagely.
- A naughty little photo to embellish your working day?
- You were so good to me the last time tonight, it’s my turn to reciprocate.
- I can’t wait to feel you inside me and see your face light up.
- I can’t wait for you to touch me. I’m going crazy.