We know all the secret codes of the body, thanks to which you will always be the most desirable. All that remains is to apply them in practice.
Secrets of Successful Flirting
1. Research by British scientists has shown that 93% of men prefer cheerful, natural and confident women. 76% like it when a girl makes the first move. Therefore, the main secret of flirting: be yourself and don’t be afraid to take the initiative into your own hands, eyes, lips and more…
2. The language of flirting is the same all over the world. But each country has its own peculiarities. For example, in Germany, flirting is considered a subtle art of temptation and seduction, both on the part of a man and a woman. In America, flirting is more frank and free of prejudice. It is very important to take into account the peculiarities of a man’s mentality before you start flirting with him. What is good for an American is not good at all for a German, and it is completely unclear how a Russian man will react to this.
3. Flirting is possible not only in the real world, but also in the virtual one. According to the Pew Research Center, 40% of respondents regularly flirt via email or in a chat.
4. The car is one of the best places for successful flirting. Sociological studies have shown that 62% of respondents have flirted with drivers of other cars at least once. For 31%, such flirting ended in a romantic date.
5. Femininity provokes men to flirt. High thin stiletto heels of elegant shoes, a skirt or dress. If we talk about makeup, then most often men pay attention to sensual lips and long, fluffy eyelashes. And of course, to well-groomed hands and beautiful nails.
6. British scientists conducted research, during which they found out that for men, at first impression, the decisive factors are: in 55% of cases, a woman’s plasticity, in 38% – the manner of speech, and in 7% – the content of speech. Sexologists note that at the flirting stage, it is best for a woman to use panther plasticity. Proud posture, relaxed arms, confident gait. In this way, you give a signal to a man: I am walking on my own, but I am not against getting acquainted.
7. Australian psychologists have established that the best distance for flirting is 30 cm. In this way, you find yourself in the so-called intimate zone of your partner, but do not violate his personal boundaries.
8. Looking into the eyes for more than five seconds indicates your interest in a man. So if you are into flirting, hold the gaze a little longer.
9. When flirting, open your mouth slightly. According to statistics, this turns on 87% of men.
10. The position of the head plays a very important role. A slight tilt of the head to the side is a classic. And a look over the shoulder can drive most men crazy.
11. People feel when a person is closed and lose interest in him. Therefore, when flirting, take an open and relaxed pose. Do not cross your arms over your chest, do not clench your fingers into a fist, your palms should be facing the man. This is a signal: “I trust you and I am interested in our communication.”
12. One of the sexiest gestures, according to men, is when a woman runs her hand through her hair or plays with one of the curls. This movement is natural and at the same time very erotic.
13. When flirting with a man you like, try to keep the distance between your feet about 15 cm. Sexologists claim that this leg position “turns men on”.
14. One of the most successful flirting techniques is the “mirror”. When you sit opposite a man you are interested in, copy his gestures. But do it easily and naturally. Otherwise, the man may think that you are mimicking him.
15. If you are used to sitting “cross-legged”, slowly change your legs. According to statistics, 92% of men are simply captivated by this gesture.
16. Look into the eyes of your interlocutor and mentally say: “I am amazing, you are amazing, sex is amazing”. The main thing is not to accidentally say these words out loud.
17. A naive upward glance, wide-open eyelashes, a slightly tilted head… Men claim that when a woman looks at them like this, she looks defenseless, which means that next to her, anyone feels big and strong, which, of course, is very flattering.
18. Don’t speak loudly – a quiet voice will make a man lean towards you and thereby reduce the distance between you.
19. Try to call a man by name more often. Personal address makes your conversation more intimate.
20. Make it a rule to build your phrases so that a man answers “yes” to them. Agreement brings people closer together, and soon a man simply won’t be able to refuse you.
21. Men like it when they are complimented. Therefore, notice what you like. At the same time, pay attention to how you formulate the compliment. You need to praise the man, not his things.
22. Jewelry is the best assistant in flirting. Flirtatiously finger your beads or play with an earring. This will attract more attention to you, your neck and décolleté.
23. Perfume can drive you crazy and set you up for flirting. It has been proven that the aromas of vanilla or cinnamon are strong aphrodisiacs.
24. Flirting improves your health. This is the conclusion reached by doctors at the University of Colorado. They conducted studies that showed that those who regularly and actively flirt have a high content of red blood cells in the blood. This indicates good immunity and good health. Flirt more often, improve your immunity!
25. And finally, the main secret – enjoy flirting! Do not make plans for the future with the man you are flirting with. Flirting is here and now. Enjoy!