Even if we live a long distance relationship, the subject of sexuality should not be a taboo. Regardless of the age of the partners. It doesn’t matter how old the couple is. It doesn’t matter the kilometers.
Intimacy in a long-distance relationship is just as crucial as in a traditional relationship.
The difference here comes in the way of expressing this intimacy . Say goodbye to physical contact, kissing, cuddling and… sex.
From now on, the foundations of the couple are turned upside down. We give up taste , touch and smell , and we rely more than ever on our sight and our hearing.
But then, can we still share intimate moments together from a distance? In other words, can you still have sex with your partner?
Well, “technically”, no.
(Although, as you’ll see in this article, more and more technology seems to be breaking down the barriers that can separate two beings.)
But the main interest in making love with your other half is not so much to feel an intense physical pleasure through your senses.
It is much more than that. Otherwise why wouldn’t you do it yourself?
It is about sharing a unique moment combining vulnerability, trust and reciprocal love .
Here are 4 Ways to Make Love from a Distance that should allow you to stay in phase and in harmony with your partner and your desires.
These 4 tracks are classified in order from the most passive to the most fusional. The last even allows you to physically exchange with your other half …
1. Sexto and mobile applications
Nowadays, we can say without any hesitation that sexting has become commonplace . And it is not for nothing!
The advantage of erotic texting is that it allows you to express your nastiest thoughts without going too far out of your comfort zone. Simple and effective, it gets straight to the point with minimal effort.
Here’s the procedure to follow :
- Be creative and draw your hottest(or … most raw) sentences
- Season these with one or more photos on Snapchat where you are more or lessdressed and more or less in an evocative position
- Wait for your partner’s response
- Raise the temperature!
Find out more: The Art of Sexting for Couples: How to Make Love by SMS
2. Phone sex
We go to the next level by adding voice to words, for a set conducive to the expression of the most intimate fantasies.
Indeed, phone sex is based more on the imagination than the other alternatives. In this situation it is up to each partner to describe what he / she is wearing, what he / she takes off, his / her position, his / her desires or what he / she would do to the other, etc.
Even if it means distorting reality and adding layers to fill its half!
So we close our eyes and let ourselves be guided by the whisper of the loved one …
Learn more: How to Make Love on the Phone? 7 Crucial Steps
3. Make Love via Skype
No more fine words, we take action. Skype is undoubtedly the most convenient free videoconferencing tool for having fun face to face.
This time the gesture mingles with the word and you can contemplate the realization of your desires live , without having to describe everything.
Get ready for the date (outfit, hairstyle, makeup, etc.), make sure everything is working out properly , and let’s go !
To spice it up, you can find “naughty dice” or “Truth or Dare” style applications on the Internet that will allow you to launch yourself into small erotic challenges. But first, make sure your bedroom door is locked !
Learn more: Remote Skype Sex: 4 Things to Know About
4. Connected sex toys
They are called Kiiroo or Lovense , and they are coming. For our greater good …
Connected sextoys (also called teledildonic sextoys ) are not simple sextoys. Indeed, these make it possible to exchange in real time the movements carried out from and to another toy.
In other words, you will precisely “feel” the movements of your other half and vice versa . Add to that built-in videochat or Skype and you have the absolute solution to REALLY having sex from a distance .
FYI, several product ranges exist with prices ranging from 150 € to 500 € for a pair of sex toys. An investment that can be really worth it, especially if your long-distance relationship is to last a long time.
Learn more: The 5 Best Connected and Remote Controlled Sex Toys
You no longer have any excuse not to share intimate moments with your boyfriend or girlfriend from a distance.
However, if you have the feeling that your partner is reluctant to have sex at a distance, it could be a problem with desire .