Finding that special person that you can love and feeling the fullness of receiving the correspondence of your love is totally incredible. But if you thought finding it was the hard part, forget it! The complex, and at the same time exciting, part is to establish a lasting relationship where both, over the years, satisfy their needs and together achieve fullness and fulfillment.
Having a partner is a great opportunity to develop a relationship in which we can find answers to our emotional, affective and other needs, at the same time that we offer these answers to our partner. Interesting, right?
Communicate, understand and understand
To begin with, it is very important to recognize and mention that the couple builds each other, heals and helps each other when communicating effectively. Many partnership problems could be avoided and resolved if only both communicated clearly and in a timely manner.
Being able to speak and understand our partner’s needs is essential for a long, full and happy relationship. Here you will find some proposals from which you can start to reflect, dialogue and work with your partner.
Pleasant, free and comforting intimacy
Many couples who love each other, for various reasons, sometimes do not have the opportunity to be close, to enjoy their love and their company, so it has to be said: enjoy the company of your partner and the opportunity to love each other freely. Doing so strengthens and unites the couple, giving them the opportunity to dedicate themselves to attention and affection.
Don’t be afraid to take the initiative in love and in displays of affection of all kinds
Remember this: women need to feel loved, special, valued; and the man, to experience a full sexual life. However, it is healthy to invest in the intention: she, a full sexuality and him, feeling loved, valued and wanted.
It is a matter of working on the needs of both , who, of course, may present themselves alternately or with a certain frequency and constancy, but both need one or the other the same.
Comfort and care
Often, women forget that their husbands also have trials and challenges, that they get tired, frustrated and even suffer from stress and anxiety. When a man can find in his wife a friend with whom to talk his affairs without being judged and condemned , he will be able to rest and gain strength by knowing that he has at his side a woman who supports him unconditionally and that for her he will go out again and face the world.
And the prudent husband will know that his wife also needs to be heard and to be the main target of his attention and care.
Again, both require feeling cared for, both require comfort at some point in life. The important thing is to learn to identify this need in the other and give it.
Health is a matter of the two
Believe it or not, many of the serious male illnesses that are cured have been detected in time thanks, for the most part, to wives sincerely concerned for their husbands’ health. Men, in general, are a little careless of their health, feel ill, hold on and never go to the doctor until it is too late.
And it goes in the other direction: an intelligent man will see to it that his wife not only goes to the doctor, but that he will accompany her in other events, other foreign affairs and everything she may need.
The way of cooking, the foods that are prepared and healthy habits like exercise, is a matter of couple.
Peace and tranquility
Men and women need a place to return to every day and feel safe and at peace, building a place like this, previously, fell directly on women, but, as time goes by, we can see that this task is not its exclusive , but, that her husband and children play a major role in household chores and not that they only “help” with the mother’s responsibility.
Having a clean, warm home where everyone feels comfortable and welcome is anyone’s dream.
Exaggeration, both in order and carelessness, creates tension between the couple
We have to talk, we have to agree and then work together . On one occasion, I had the opportunity to assist a couple with a series of accumulated problems, and when talking about what really bothered them, she cried out of her heart that she hated the decoration of her apartment.
It was easy to understand: she had not participated in its decoration and was the legacy of the previous wife, he then understood everything and the other problems were suddenly solved.
And when the children arrive, don’t forget to go out alone and enjoy this time. Here it is important to give in to each other: he may enjoy some activities and she may enjoy others, and others children! So, negotiating becomes fundamental and reaching agreements, a family policy!
Men and women can become very different and see or perceive the world in different ways. Our life stories make us have particular needs, but when we see them in pairs, we see that we can be very similar and that the person we choose and chose us complements us perfectly if we only dare to talk and walk together.