The most poisonous thing in a relationship is not not not loving, but not letting him off when he clearly doesn’t love.
Some people are weird. They love you but let you go. Some people are even more weird. They don’t love you and don’t let you go.
When I read this sentence for the first time, I only felt that the person who said it was hypocritical, but I never thought that the second half of this sentence would be fulfilled in myself.
Every time I talk about the ten years of love with my girlfriend, there are always many ignorant girls who sigh and believe in love again
In fact, dating for ten or eight years sounds quite bluffing. In fact, if you have been in love with a woman for so long, and she still doesn’t want to marry you, then she will not marry you. is you.
When did I feel that the other party did not love me?
It may be half a year ago, when she forgot my birthday, or a year ago, she was talking with other men on her back, and I discovered that when she “sincerely admitted her mistakes”, it could be two years ago. I called and told me to work overtime, but I was at the place where I was having a dinner with my friend, and I saw her talking and laughing with a strange boy…
I have always felt that her perfunctory and indifferent, but because of the long time together and the lack of freshness, after all, we have known each other from high school, and we have been in love for nearly ten years from college to graduation, and we have the best youth together. I have seen each other in the most embarrassed look.
I also thought that if she really doesn’t love anymore, that’s nothing. I know that time has nothing to do with love, and I will accept the fact of breaking up.
But I imagined countless possibilities. She just gave me the most disgusting one. From the time we quarreled and the Cold War started, I tried to talk to her. If there is a problem, I will solve the problem. If there is no problem, I will think about how to go in the future. Go down.
But every time she interrupted me impatiently, “Can you stop being so suspicious, whoever is in a relationship doesn’t quarrel? We have been together for so long, so don’t think too much.”
She blocked all my communication with his indifference and perfunctory.
I also mentioned breaking up, but her attitude was unexpectedly firm. She said, “We have been together for so long. I never thought about marrying anyone except you. If we broke up immediately, what should I do?”
It is said that a woman who falls in love is blind, so he said, I believe it, and now think about it, if she really wants to marry me, she won’t drag me from 20 to 30.
Later, when I caught him in bed, she confessed that not breaking up with me was not really reluctant to have the feelings of the past ten years, but she did not find a better candidate for marriage than me. To put it bluntly, now she is dragging. I, just to have a back road, once I find a better and more suitable candidate, then my back road is not worth mentioning.
She said that if the 35-year-old is still the same as now, then she will marry me, but at that time, I was just her second choice.
Ten years of love, when parting, she was not dignified. She blamed me for not remembering her old feelings, and making her cheating on everyone knows. I also hate her for doing disgusting things. If I don’t love me, why not just break up, I don’t Hate her for breaking up with me, I only hate that she lied to me for so many years.
In this world, the most unpredictable thing may be love.
The honey of A, the arsenic of B, love or not love, are all too subjective things. Perhaps only a few lucky people can meet an ideal partner for the first time. The love of most people can never escape the fate of stumbling and going around, often accompanied by regret.
You can choose to love someone, and you have the right not to love someone, but if you really don’t love anymore, please take the initiative to speak out instead of the so-called “do not want to hurt”.
This way consumes another person’s youth and time, and don’t deliberately drag the other person, treat the other person as a spare tire. You think the other person must be you. In fact, after the other person separates from you, you will only thank you for not marrying. Grace.
