Are you worried about male jealousy and how to overcome it? Or do you want to help your husband (partner) defeat his male jealousy? Read this fascinating and engaging story by Peter as inspiration and see how similar situations can be handled. Fight for love, because you will change not only your life, but the whole world.
I asked Peter to write a message for you . And I must say that he really succeeded. His words are very powerful and inspiring to many, so I definitely recommend that you read his entire story and message to the end.
Petra was tormented by jealousy to such an extent that his partner had to change jobs three times because of him because there were too many men. He was afraid, didn’t trust her, suspected and controlled his partner and made jealous scenes. Everything eventually resulted in a breakup, when his partner moved in with her parents. His manly jealousy had caused him problems in previous relationships, but now he had a lot going for him.
Despite everything, Petr decided to do something with himself. He decided to change his life. It wasn’t an easy road, but he finally got his partner back. She moved back in with him, they started a business together and planned the future. Do you want to find out how Peter managed to change his life and get his beloved partner back? Then don’t forget to read until the end, because a very interesting and inspiring story is waiting for you, which ends with a very powerful and wise message. Find out how men get jealous so you can change your attitude and save your relationship.
This post is part of a series of articles on our blog dedicated to sharing personal stories, journeys and insights about mental health, mental health treatment and relationship issues with our clients and members of our community.
MALE JEALOUSY – THE STORY OF PETER
Jealousy destroyed more than one relationship and generally complicated my life. I have dealt with it in previous relationships, but in the current relationship with my partner, everything has radically worsened. It escalated to an extreme where I became suspicious, jealous and forbade my partner to go to certain places and meet certain people.
My partner became extremely careful when talking to other men, especially in my presence, so that I wouldn’t immediately think something bad and believe things that weren’t happening. Still, I was never calm and didn’t trust her. Everything gradually got worse.
She had to change jobs three times because I said there were too many men and she would definitely go with one of them. I didn’t trust her, suspected her, controlled her and ended up making jealous scenes. Male jealousy can be very destructive and even dangerous. When emotions such as anger, anger, fear and aggression take hold of men, they become dangerous not only for themselves, but also for those around them. Fortunately, I’ve always been able to keep my male jealousy under control, even if it occasionally resulted in nasty arguments, loud yelling, and some cursing and humiliation.
When the horrible thing happened that she had to change her third job because of me, my beloved partner started blaming me for everything. She literally spewed all the problems of our entire life together on me. It was like a volcano had erupted and kept spewing lava. I was unhappy and confused about it, but the worst part was when she told me that she was considering a divorce and was even going to live with her parents for the time being. This shocked me and made me realize that I had to change something. That’s when I finally understood that my male jealousy is a real problem that is destroying our relationship.
MALE JEALOUSY – A VISIT TO A PSYCHOLOGIST AND THERAPIST
I decided to see both a psychologist and a therapist with my problems. My partner was fed up with the constant arguments, conflicts and my unmanageable emotional instability, so she gradually packed her things and kept her distance from me. After meeting with a psychologist, I was calmly referred to a psychiatrist to put me on medication because they say I can’t control my emotions and I’m dangerous. I was shocked by this and thought it was completely unethical and unprofessional that he would send me to a psychiatrist who would prescribe medication and solve my problems? However, I tried a therapist who specializes in dealing with relationships and relationship issues. After a few sessions I was more aware of my problems and something really changed, but I was expecting a bigger change. In addition, I didn’t know what I could do to change myself and I was forced to go to therapy, kwhere only the past was dealt with over and over again.
I felt that I needed someone to show me the way, guide me and tell me what I myself could do to change. Instead, I was referred to a therapist who was probably just lining his own pocket by still bringing up old wounds from my past and going over them all the time. I said enough.
That’s when I confided my problems to a good friend of mine who understood me as he himself had gone through a relationship crisis and had some jealousy issues before. He recommended Jirka to me, who helped him a lot to overcome his own problems. He explained to me how it works for him and how it helped him. I didn’t hesitate and went right into it.
CHANGE HAS COME
I immediately purchased the Self Love Path online course and consultation. I rolled up my sleeves and started working on myself. Wow, that load of information and context was absolutely shocking. Jirka explained and showed me how deep-rooted my jealousy can be, and he immediately helped me create a strategy that I fully followed to get my partner back and, above all, to get rid of my toxic jealousy.
I admire Jirka for the fact that he was able to brutally ground me and have fun with me honestly. He didn’t fear or walk around the hot mess, but went straight to the heart of the matter and carefully dissected me. I have to highlight the programming recordings and meditations in the course, which I still use every day (to this day). They are absolutely fantastic tools that give me self-confidence , self-confidence and teach me to like and accept myself as I am. The videos, techniques and all the supplementary materials from other courses available to me during the consultation I didn’t even expect, but they made everything even more interesting.
I STARTED TO SEE THE FIRST POSITIVE RESULTS
As time went on, I began to see the first positive results. My behavior changed slightly and I noticed how I felt better. I was more confident and less controlled by fear. I gave my partner, who was already living with her parents, more space and kept in touch with her by phone. We often wrote or called each other and I told her what was going on with me and that I was actively working on myself. Over time, she also noticed because I no longer made scenes when she went out to hang out with her friends or sit down for coffee, even when friends were there. Yes, it still bothered me at times, I admit, but I was able to deal with it on my own.
We started seeing each other again and she herself realized that I had done a lot of work on myself. This excited me and I told her that it was important to me that she do a job that she likes and that fulfills her and that I didn’t want to be an obstacle in her way just because of my fear that she might cheat on me with one of my colleagues.
Everything suddenly flowed naturally and above all freely until she moved back in with me. We started doing business together and planning a future together.
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MALE JEALOUSY IS A THING OF THE PAST AND MY LIFE HAS CHANGED
When I was finally able to get rid of all the onslaught of negative emotions: jealousy, stress and worry, it was like a heavy stone fell from me. I haven’t felt this light in a long time. It was the first time I experienced a relationship based on mutual trust, freedom and openness. It was liberating and wonderful. I wish everyone could experience that feeling.
Of course, my relationship with my partner encountered a whole series of other problems, but this time I had more faith that we could handle everything together. When we went through hell together and got through it, our relationship became much stronger. Each solution to the problem strengthened us and deepened our confidence.
As time went on, I started to like myself more and felt more confident. I was finally able to get rid of the sick male jealousy that almost destroyed my entire relationship. And not surprisingly, my self-confidence grew with it. Now I know that if we can overcome such an obstacle, we can overcome anything together.
THANKS
I felt more internally satisfied and less irritable. My jealousy was gone and replaced by mutual understanding and support. I have become a happier and fuller person thanks to my partner and my own efforts. I have to thank my partner immensely because she had a lot of patience with me and was able to stand by me even when I lost hope. She helped me find a way to change and become a real man.
I would like to express my gratitude to Jirko for his invaluable experience, materials, online courses and tools that continue to help me. His perspective and the information provided were a great support for me during my journey. In addition, I would like to thank Lence for her recordings, meditations and videos, which are absolutely great. It was extremely important for me to complete this journey, even if it lasted for several months. But I know it was definitely worth it and I’m grateful for all the resources that helped me become a better version of myself.
A MESSAGE FOR OTHERS
I would like to share my knowledge and highlight the importance of what I have learned. I would also like to write a message for others at Jirko’s request. I’m glad that Jirka asked me, because with hindsight I can see how important it is.
Jealousy is a very tricky problem, because in its essence, a person who suffers from it hurts not only himself, but mainly his surroundings and the people he likes and cares about the most. Don’t let your fear that lies beneath the surface destroy your relationships and divide your family. Although I did not have children at the time of my jealousy and now we are preparing for one, there are many couples among us who have children and let their jealousy subtly dissolve and divide the family.
It is not only about your relationship, but through your relationship and the example of a mother and father, you give your children the most valuable thing in life. If the child sees a bad example in you, will grow up in an incomplete family, it can have a negative impact on his later life. I assume you don’t want this? No one wants that for their children. We are raising another new generation for which we are responsible. You largely determine the destinies of your children and the building blocks on which they can later build their lives and relationships.
DON’T RUN AWAY FROM YOUR PROBLEMS – SOLVE THEM AND CHANGE YOUR LIFE AND THE WHOLE WORLD
However, running away from problems such as jealousy is not the answer. If you don’t resolve this, you will continue to struggle with this problem in other relationships. You will always be dissatisfied, jealous, destroy your relationships and trample on your own happiness. And I know what I’m talking about because I’ve been through it.
By solving it in yourself, you will change not only your life, but also the life of many other people around you. By doing so, you will also help your partner grow and thus set the right relationship model, but also the model of a mother and father to your children. In this way, you educate the next generation and inspire those around you. Change is thus spreading to the world thanks to you. Regardless of the fact that most of all you will be satisfied and happy, and that’s what matters, right?
I hope that this message will help at least a few people to think about themselves, their lives and their families and make a change, because even a small change can produce big results.
A STORY OF MALE JEALOUSY AND ITS CONCLUSION
I have to commend Peter for the message – the message he gave to the world through his whole story. I couldn’t have done it better and I hope this message inspires others to think about their life, relationship and family and start doing something about it. Even though Petr knew he had a long way to go, he was determined to roll up his sleeves like a good guy and face his problems head on. I appreciate that, it was a great collaboration. Thank you for the mutual enrichment.
It’s great to see and hear Peter showing such determination and purpose in his journey from male jealousy. It is not always easy to move on when faced with challenges, but it is often through persistence and hard work that we are able to make progress and achieve our dreams and goals. Of course, the path to healing from jealousy is not only about hard work, but about a conscious approach to yourself, where it is important to enjoy the whole process. We also learn this in our online courses, how to approach this correctly, so that the work does not stress you out, but it was a journey full of joy, happiness and self-discovery.
Thank you for your feedback, Petra, and your inspiring story, which gives me feedback that what I’m doing really makes sense and, most importantly, that it works. Petr has already completed his transformation and now it’s your turn. Join our online program the path of self-love in combination with
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IN CONCLUSION
The story was not modified in any way, only headings were inserted for better clarity of the story, links were inserted, the introduction and conclusion of the article were inserted. Thank you so much Petra for sharing a powerful inspirational story of transformation and your message to others that truly inspires and gives others hope for a better tomorrow in our already terrible social society and also that male jealousy can be permanently healed.