Tired of sending and receiving the same messages over and over again ? I have the solution for you !
After having discovered together the essential rules for writing a good romantic text message , today I reveal to you 7 ideas of SMS to send to your other half .
These different types of messages will allow you to alternate, break the routine and be able to adapt to all situations.
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Contents
1. The basic SMS
What’s up ?
Typically, this is the message you send to start a conversation.
It lets both of you know what you’re doing right now and express your attention in a few messages.
For that, it is always better to conclude this mini-conversation early enough not to drag on for too long (“ Cool all that! Now I have to go to work, we’ll talk later “).
That way you’ll save it for later and your other half will be all the more impatient .
2. Predictable but fun texting
I miss you. I miss the kebab too, but I miss you even MORE! Though…
When you’re in a long-distance relationship, there are a lot of totally predictable messages : hello, good night, I love you, I miss you, I can’t wait to see you again, etc.
In order to avoid falling into boredom, it is essential to add a hint of effort and to make these basic messages more surprising and original .
It will make your other half feel less like they’ve read that same text before and that your relationship is going in circles. Use your imagination and use the other ideas in this article for inspiration.
3. The love SMS
You are my Everything !
Romantic SMS is a classic for all long distance couples.
The concern is that if you send too many romantic texts, your other half will take you for granted too quickly .
So the solution is to reduce the dose to a few times a week so as not to be giving it too much attention at once.
On the other hand, you still need to send a number of romantic messages to your partner to feel your affection and the connection between you .
Therefore, regularly send little love messages, letters, poems, declarations and even simple “I love you”. While remaining original!
4. The funny text message
Today I watched an animal documentary on koalas and it immediately reminded me of you!
Every now and then send your partner a joke or something funny that happened during your day.
It’s a great way to share something light, smile together, and make your partner laugh . However, this is an essential quality in the life of a couple.
You don’t have to become a joke machine though! But keep this in mind when funny things are going on in your daily life or you hear a funny story.
5. The mysterious SMS …
You’ll never guess what happened today! …
Curiosity is a bad thing, but it’s also a great way to create anticipation and impatience .
By receiving this kind of message, your other half will want to know everything as quickly as possible and will not be able to find calm until they know the reason behind your text .
As such, this is a great way to attract and keep your partner since he or she will be constantly thinking of you because of it.
However, only use curiosity when it is justified, so as not to disappoint the other.
You have to be able to give him a good answer to satisfy and reward his interest .
Otherwise your other half will quickly realize that you are wasting their time and that you are not serious. Next time, she’ll probably ignore your text.
6. The “stop-gap” text message
At college, sleeping in lecture. I love my life.
Here they are simple messages sent to keep your darling informed of what you are doing now . Kind of like posting a status on Facebook or Twitter.
With these simple texts, you can easily keep in touch during the day and be sure that you stay in his thoughts.
We will still avoid harassing him . Do not send a second message until you have received a reply or 4/5 hours have passed since the first.
7. The hot and sexy SMS
It’s not just me that you miss …
Finally, there are those naughty texts that will wake up in your partner his desire and his hottest thoughts .
If you’ve never done it before, then it’s not too late: write your first sext and admire the results!
It’s a great way to break up the monotony but also to remind your other half that you have an intimate relationship that goes beyond words .
In order to tame the art of Sexting as a couple, I have written an article that summarizes step by step how to go about it .
Conclusion
Now you have no more excuses for not getting caught up in the game and diversifying your SMS!
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