Wax games look great in adult movies, but in reality you can accidentally get hurt. To ensure that the new experience leaves positive emotions, and not burns, it is better to use massage candles.
Why You Should Try Massage Candles
According to sexologist Carol Queen, massage candles, unlike regular ones, are made from skin-safe ingredients like soy. It melts at a lower temperature, so it is almost impossible to burn yourself with a soy candle.
Paraffin, which is used to make regular candles, is difficult to remove from the skin. This won’t be a problem with massage candles – when heated, the wax turns into oil. It is absorbed into the skin or easily washed off with shower gel. A pleasant bonus – massage candles are usually scented. The smell can create a special intimate atmosphere.
How to use massage candles
Take care of safety
Carol Queen advises placing the candle away from any flammable materials, such as curtains or blankets. If you want to keep the candle close to your bed, it’s best to place it on a nightstand, chair, or other stable surface.
Although massage candles are safe for the skin, they should not be used as a lubricant . According to sexologist Sunny Rogers, if the oil is applied to the genitals, it can cause irritation or yeast infection . The oil is also harmful to latex materials, so it will only ruin condoms .
The oil can stain your sheets, so if you don’t want to change them afterwards, it’s best to lay down a towel.
Let the candle warm up
If you use the candle too soon, it may heat unevenly. Too much wax will accumulate on one side, and not enough on the other. This will make it difficult to melt the candle in the future.
Sunny Rogers recommends lighting a candle and waiting 30 minutes for the wax to melt evenly. Plus, if the candle is scented, it will fill the room with a pleasant aroma that will help set the right mood.
Blow out the flame before using the wax.
Don’t stick your hands into the flame. Heated massage oil doesn’t harden as quickly as a regular candle. The wax stays liquid for half an hour, so don’t worry about not having time to use the candle.
Decide where you will have your massage
According to Sunny Rogers, you can start by trying a massage of your neck, shoulders, and feet. The expert believes that the feet are a great starting point. From there, it’s easy to smoothly move on to other erogenous zones , such as the back of the knees and inner thighs.
If you’re a beginner, Carol Queen recommends learning massage techniques to enhance your pleasure. More experienced partners can try playing with a candle while blindfolded.