Choosing the right breakup message to spare your feelings

Romantic relationships can be complicated, but separations are even more so. Here is why we have chosen to offer you 50 breaking SMS messages to help you find the right words to tell your partner that everything is over between you.

Over time, your relationship may have frayed, or your feelings may have faded, and you think it’s time to end what’s left of your relationship. A breaking message can be a way of breaking up in a more delicate and subtle way. It is also an opportunity to think carefully about what you want to say to your partner.

Sometimes when you try to end a romantic relationship, you lose your words and forget to say what is important to you. So, a breakup text message can be welcome because you can take the time to analyze your relationship and carefully choose the words you are going to say.

Of course, breaking up with a breakup message isn’t necessarily great, and in itself it can be a really bad idea. The other can experience it as a betrayal. But, if you have difficulty expressing yourself orally or are afraid of your other half’s reaction, this may be a wise choice for you.

Breakup messages for her

Here is a list of 25 breakup text messages specially written for men who want to end their relationship with their girlfriends. These breaking texts are sad and emotional, but they are also direct and sincere.

If you choose to break up with your partner by sending her a breakup message, make sure she really understands your intention and that it isn’t going to cause her to question your entire relationship and the feelings you have. had for it.

  1. You are the best thing that ever happened to me and you will always have a special place in my heart. But, unfortunately, I don’t think our couple has a future. I’m leaving you.
  2. You deserve so much better than a breakup message. But, I’m a coward and I can’t stand watching you cry. So there you go, I’m leaving you by text!
  3. I really believed in our love, but something changed. Is that you ? Is it me? I don’t know but I don’t love you anymore. Sorry but I’m leaving you.
  4. I thought about it all night and finally this morning figured out what to do. We must separate and seek happiness elsewhere. Clearly, we are not happy together and we have to stop this masquerade.
  5. Nothing can hurt you more than understanding that romantic feelings are gone. I’m sincerely sorry but I don’t think we’re meant to spend our lives together.
  6. I wanted to be the perfect man for you but you were only looking for a trophy to strut your arm around. I don’t want a relationship without love anymore. I deserve much more. I love you but I don’t want to be with you anymore. I’m leaving you…
  7. This morning, I got up and understood that I had to write you a breaking text. Then I realized I didn’t know what to tell you. So there you are, quite simply, I’m leaving you.
  8. I still don’t understand why things between us aren’t working out but I’m tired of hiding my face. I’m sorry to text you away but I don’t see what else to do.
  9. The problem with our relationship is that you were trying to shape it to meet the demands of your loved ones. I no longer want to live a lie. Clearly, you are not in love with me. I must therefore put an end to this situation. Goodbye.
  10. It would never have come to this if you had chosen to be honest with me. As you disrespected me, I return the favor by breaking up with you by text. Have a good day !
  11. Love is hard. Relationships are difficult. Breakups are a nightmare. To keep us from crying and wasting more time, I decided to write you a breaking text. Goodbye my darling!
  12. It’s simply over. Our love died and our relationship became stifling. There is nothing more that can be done to save our marriage. Even though I’m sorry, I’m happy that we now have the opportunity to seek happiness on our own.
  13. In our relationship, you were my priority. The problem is that we had the same priority! I don’t want to spend my life with a selfish, self-centered person. Thank you for everything but it is time to stop the costs!
  14. You don’t deserve my love if you’re looking for reasons for me to deserve yours. You are not the person I thought you were. Too bad it took me so long to realize it. It’s over, for good!
  15. My love for you is still so vibrant. But, our relationship is not working. we argue all the time and we don’t have the same goals. Let’s stop wasting our time and move on. Know I’m sorry but I have to leave you.
  16. I am leaving you because my heart was busy dancing the melody of love while yours was filled with jealousy, lies and disrespect. That breaking text is the only thing you deserve.
  17. I’m leaving you. I know that this period will be difficult for both of us but our separation will not leave too important consequences. We are both strong and independent. I know you will find the right one, unfortunately this man is not me.
  18. You are a great woman, but you are not my ideal woman. It might be hard for you to read but I want to be honest. I wish you all the happiness in the world because you deserve it.
  19. We are two great people and therefore I cannot understand why our relationship is not working. Perhaps two such exceptional beings are preventing each other from developing. Sorry but I’m leaving you.
  20. I really didn’t want to give up but I have to face the facts: this couple is a disaster. We are far too different and we deserve to be happy. Unfortunately, as long as we stay together, that won’t be possible. So I’m leaving you.
  21. You could have been honest but you chose to lie. It’s not the kind of relationship I want. Thank you for your time and for your investment in this relationship, but it is time for each of us to walk our own path.
  22. I didn’t think that one day I was going to write a breaking text message, but here I am. I’m leaving you by text because I could never have found the right words to do it face-to-face.
  23. I am leaving you because you are always looking for the negative side of things. So, here’s a new point in your list of my mistakes: Separating myself from you by text.
  24. Sometimes, justifying a breakup can be as difficult as justifying the love you feel for someone. there is no real logical reason but I am leaving you.
  25. Sometimes a break-up is the bitter pill that helps you heal after a toxic relationship. You’ve been a horrible partner and I don’t regret leaving you while writing this breakup text.

Breaking SMS for him

A break-up message reserved for men must be explicit and clear. When reading your break-up text, he shouldn’t ask himself questions like “Why is she doing this to me?”, “How can I fix this?” or “Is it my fault?”.

You must explain to him precisely the emotions which haunt you at this precise moment and the reasons which pushed you to take this radical decision. A broken SMS is not easy to write, but it is even harder to read. So think about his reaction when he receives it.

  1. We had a great time but I don’t think we’re meant to spend our lives together. In our relationship, there is no more love. It’s hard to admit it but I think we have to say goodbye if we want to live happily.
  2. This breaking text is the hardest thing I have ever written. Yet sometimes you have to let go of the person you love. I know this is the best decision for both of us! I am aware that we have reached the end of our road. maybe one day our paths will cross again but for now we have to say goodbye.
  3. I am losing my best friend, my protector and my lover. I can no longer watch you disappear in your disenchantment. I wish you all the happiness in the world and I hope you meet the girl who can make you happy. I’m sorry but this person is no less.
  4. This message of rupture comes after several months of intense efforts to rebuild our relationship. You don’t notice me anymore and I don’t love you anymore. And, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with someone who doesn’t see me and don’t listen to me.
  5. I still love you and that makes the situation even more difficult. But, I have to be honest: I’m not happy with you anymore. This is life and there is no need to blame for the failure of this relationship. I wish you the best that life has to offer.
  6. We say that if we love someone, we must let him go. I really love you honey and I want you to be happy with a woman who matches you better. I know I made you suffer a lot and it’s time for it to stop. Goodbye !
  7. You cannot fix something that is already dead. The only thing left for us to do is to go our separate ways. I want to be happy and I wish you the same. I know we can’t be as long as we stay together.
  8. When you kiss me, I don’t want to return the favor. When you tell me that you love me, I have a hard time finding the words to say it to you too. I’m sorry, but I’m not the right person for you.
  9. I don’t know exactly what love is, but I know perfectly well what it is not. I think we have to break up and give ourselves the opportunity to find true happiness, each on our side.
  10. Even though it is very painful for me to admit that our relationship is over, I have to face the facts. Thank you for everything ! Goodbye.
  11. Very little can last forever and romantic relationships are not on this list. I’m happy to have met you because we had a great time together. But, to be honest, I’m not in love with you!
  12. You never know where a relationship may take us. Unfortunately ours took us to a dead end. This means that we must separate and each follow their own path.
  13. It is better to be alone than to stay with a man who has no respect for his partner. I don’t regret anything but I don’t want to continue like this anymore. Thank you but no thank you …
  14. I’m leaving you. This breaking text is not written to hurt you. I chose this channel of communication to give you time to digest the news before we sit down to have a heart-to-heart discussion.
  15. You have changed a lot and I don’t think I have feelings for this new man you have become. You are arrogant and rude. We have to go our separate ways because I don’t want you to poison the rest of my life.
  16. A message that doesn’t break up might not be the best way to end our relationship, but I have to admit: I’m scared to fall back into your arms if I part with you face-to-face. face. It’s selfish but it’s the best thing to do for my own good.
  17. I knew that love was not easy. Ours was truly torture. I don’t want to cry, scream or lament anymore. I say stop to this unhappy relationship because it makes me sad.
  18. I’m sorry, but I decided to break up with you. YES, by text. I know it’s lamentable but I don’t see any other solutions because you don’t seem to understand when I try to explain it to you in person. Perhaps by reading it and seeing it written in black and white, you will understand.
  19. I loved the time spent with you but let’s be honest: we are not in love! So let’s stop pretending and move on …
  20. Everyone we meet in our lifetime teaches us something. With you, I learned that I can be very patient and tolerant. But, now, for my own well-being, I have to stop lying and pretending. Sorry but I’m leaving you!
  21. Sometimes there really isn’t a specific reason for us to break up. But, as there is also no clear reason for us to stay together, I think it is better to separate.
  22. I want to feel worthy and loved again. For this reason, I decided to leave you. This breakup message is my way of showing you the disrespect you showed me during our relationship.
  23. I think I’ve had enough. I can’t stand your negativity and criticism anymore. I want us to separate and this breaking SMS must be the end point of our relationship. Don’t contact me anymore!
  24. Our relationship seems to be going nowhere. It doesn’t develop and we’ve been stuck in one place for too long. So, I think it’s time to move forward on our own.
  25. I say stop to your insults and I say stop to your aggressiveness. This breakup message is a way for me to tell you what I’m up to while feeling safe. It’s over and I never want to hear from you again!

These break up text messages can serve as inspiration for you to write your own break up message or you can use them as is. Still, remember that one day you loved and respected this person, so maybe you should show them the same respect during your separation.

Think about your actions. Telling your partner that you are ending your relationship through a breakup message might be easier for you, but it’s the best thing for your other half. He or she surely has tons of questions for you and is certainly looking for explanations.

So it might be good, after sending your breakup SMS, to set up a one-to-one meeting to clarify the situation and speak openly. It’s important to end your relationship with the respect and love you felt before

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