The chosen one assures that everything is fine, but you sense a catch? These eight circumstances will tell you that it is time to have a serious talk, you should not let the situation slide.
Hides emotions
Most men do not show their emotions and are confident that they can deal with their problems themselves. But if your partner is obviously depressed for several days and at the same time answers every question with “everything is fine,” this indicates trust issues. There is no talk of happiness when “the closest person” is just a formality.
I lost interest in you
It’s not even that he doesn’t notice your new manicure or the change in hair color by a shade. It’s much worse if a man is not at all interested in what’s going on with you – for example, where you went without him and who you talked to on the phone for three hours. You don’t have to be jealous to show basic curiosity. They say indifference is worse than hatred, because it means there are no feelings at all… none.
Escapes from reality
There are many ways to escape from reality, and the reason is usually the same – dissatisfaction with real life. Anyone can get hooked on an exciting TV series, but if a laptop, phone, and things far away from you fill 100% of your partner’s time, then think about the last time you communicated, and not just existed nearby. Happy people do not behave like that.
Avoids intimacy
Have you already forgotten about intimacy, and your partner runs away from hugs and kisses like fire? A complete lack of even hints of tenderness is a death sentence for the relationship. Do not doubt, your partner is unhappy, but has not yet decided to end the affair. There is a chance to save the love, but something needs to be changed urgently. You have little time for a rescue operation.
Doesn’t show initiative
Regardless of gender, a person cannot be indifferent to what directly concerns him. Everyday life is certainly not the most interesting part of life, but when you offer to sell some of your chosen one’s things and repaint the garage pink, and he does not make any counter-offers, he is probably deeply unhappy, since even attacks on his personal space do not bother him in any way.
No plans for the future life
Life is not endless. One thing is a holiday romance without obligations, and another is a family. If a man avoids planning for more than a month, perhaps he is not sure that the plans will be relevant after a while. The reason may be that he simply does not see prospects, and therefore believes that the relationship will not last long.
Agrees to everything
Every happy person knows what they want and how to achieve it. Weak-willed individuals who go with the flow and agree to absolutely everything are either unhappy or in need of a parent-partner. Both will not end well. Try to have a heart-to-heart talk about the true reasons for such behavior.
Looking for a replacement for you
Long correspondence on social networks against the background of coldness towards you, jealous sense of ownership in relation to your phone can be signs of betrayal – if not physical, then moral. A man who is looking for a replacement for you is hardly happy. And yes, dating apps are not installed “just to look” and at the request of friends.