Is your guy about to propose to you (hopefully not at midnight), but you’re not sure you’ll live happily ever after? We’ve compiled a list of signs that a man isn’t the hero of your romance.
Watches your every move
He watches over you 24/7, and his nose is constantly in your phone. The guy does not let you go a step away from him not because he loves you very much, the reason for this behavior is his desire to gain total control over you. In general, this is not “care”, as your chosen one claims, but pure abuse. Run!
Loser is a calling
He blames all his troubles on his evil boss, bad friends, an inadequate ex – basically, anyone but himself. A little more, and the inexorable arrow of guilt will point at you. Stay away from such poor souls!
We depend, but not on you
Let’s be honest: if a man can’t live without you, it’s sweet but unhealthy. However, if he suffers from alcohol, drug, gambling and other addictions, it’s a real disaster that will destroy not only the psyche of the betrothed, but also your potential marriage. You don’t want to retrain as a rescuer, do you?
Saves on you
Words are superfluous! Phrases like: “Flowers will wither anyway” and “You can watch a movie at home” will help you figure out a typical miser. And just imagine maternity leave, when you will have to account for every penny spent!
Avoids helping around the house
If you have a man next to you, not a wimp, he won’t be afraid of those same wimps, as well as help around the house. There is nothing shameful in helping your woman with household chores.
Afraid to take responsibility
Your man is unreliable, and every time he masterfully avoids making important decisions. Do you need it? Your fragile shoulders already have a lot of worries, your partner should also solve problems, and not bury his head in the sand.