As we get older, we accumulate experiences, memories and stories. It happens in our family life, work and of course, with relationships. Each person who was part of our affective life left us some kind of teaching, be it good or bad. All of this can serve as learning for our future. These experiences teach us and prevent us from making new mistakes. And there are always new things you can learn and use in your next relationships. Today I have separated 4 things for you to learn to be better in relationships. Read and try to take them into your life.
Relationships are important to our lives because it is through them that we define the qualities and limits that we want in other people. Sometimes, we learn this through good experiences; other times, through unpleasant experiences. Each of them helps us to define what we look for in a long-term partner. When we are single, we just imagine, we think of hypotheses. When we are living, we start to be sure.
In today’s text we will cover the following topics:
- Charisma / Attractiveness
- It is always time to learn to be better in relationships
Unfortunately, we do not always choose the people who become part of our lives well, but we can decide whether or not they are on our side. Often, we maintain a relationship with a person hoping that he will change, that things will improve, but, deep down, we know that the situation will never change.
It’s time to give priority to the people who make every second by your side to be wonderful and worth the time invested. Although we want to be in control of everything in our lives, there will inevitably be things that will slip out of our hands. However, there are many ways to remove everything toxic from your life and it starts with relationships that add nothing.
Avoid having relationships with people who make you waste your time, who do not contribute anything useful, productive or positive to your life, but instead consume your energy and your valuable time. Always be with someone whose vibration makes you lose track of time, that improves your well-being, that carries love and good energy and that values you. There is no point in insisting on useless relationships, it will only make you waste your time.
You’ve already figured out how to talk to that tough coworker who never seems to hear or understand. You also know how to talk to your mom on the phone and how to make your dad understand what you are talking about. Already with your best friends, without the risk of hurting anyone, you can say all the uncomfortable things. However, in a relationship, communication is always more difficult. Despite being the glue that maintains the union, the couple is unable to express, in a satisfactory way, everything they feel. This can lead to the end of a relationship.
Relationships force you to be more expressive, especially if you are not normally. A relationship is made up of two people who are not mental readers, so communication is necessary. Although you know a person very well, there are always things you need to say in order for the other person to understand you better. A failed relationship teaches that communication is the key to understanding. And understanding is the key to life. Learning to communicate is a way of learning to be better in relationships.