I recently asked my Facebook friends to list the greatest qualities of their women, qualities that make them perfect women in their eyes. Some of them left the answer in the comments. Others, more timid or reserved, sent it via Messenger. But, one of them had so much good to say about his beloved, that he sent me three audios of almost a minute each, to tell me, in detail, three of his best attributes. It was very exciting to hear what each of them had to say!
Note: As some of them gave very similar answers, I merged them in a single point. So, many of the phrases below are joins of two or more statements.
- She is able to love me more than I love myself
Love is not something to feel in silence. It is important to transform the verb “to love” into an action to be practiced constantly. As long as there is no display of love, the other will not know that he is loved. It is important that he is reminded of this every day.
- She cares for me and shows it by taking good care of me
Men love to be cared for and pampered by their women. It is something they value very much.
- She cares about the welfare of our family. Has a huge sense of responsibility
Men love when their women take their role as mother and, when appropriate, housewife. They vibrate with the love they dedicate to their children, with their ability to discipline them and to keep the house in order.
One of the men who said that the other day made a video washing a sink full of dishes to encourage husbands to show their love for their wives through service. Not only do they recognize every sacrifice they make for the family, but they admit their share of responsibility for cleaning and organizing the home.
- She is independent
Men love when their women take care of their intellect, emotional, health; invest in themselves.
- Is hardworking and determined
They love to see that their women have goals in life and strive to achieve them. They are proud of them and support them in their projects.
- Is smart and has a strong opinion
Men are very attracted to women of personality and insight, above all when they use these attributes wisely.
- She is honest
Men feel happy and safe because they can fully trust the woman at their side.
- You are my accomplice
They hope to find in his wife a companion, his best friend, a partner for all times.
- It is funny, it has a contagious joy
Men want that good humor, joy and lightness that won them over at the beginning to accompany their women throughout their lives.
- Your generosity and ability to serve others are moving
What good man will not admire and be moved by his wife when she gives of herself, dedicates time, donates her talents and other resources to help those in need?
One of the husbands reported: “Once, we were in Angola, in the capital Luanda, heading towards the Hotel and, as we passed a fruit seller with a huge basket on her head, with bare feet and injured feet, my wife stopped, took the little bottle of water she had to drink, wiped the lady’s feet, took off her sandals and gave them to her. We continue our walk to the hotel singing the hymn ” I must share “. How good I felt for the rest of the day! I just confirmed what I already knew: that I am fortunate and blessed to have you as my eternal companion. ”
- She stands firm with every challenge she faces
Women who do not allow themselves to be easily beaten, who persevere in times of adversity, are a great support for their husbands and for the whole family. Men feel very safe with women like that.
- She makes time to go out alone
Men love these moments alone with their women, to talk and date, a fundamental thing to keep the flame of love always burning and the communication channel open.
- She loves God above all, even more than she loves me
This husband said that when he does something that is not in line with what the Lord expects of him, his wife never strokes his head. Instead, she calls for repentance, and she always does it with great love. Due to her wisdom and faith, she has the ability to make him see his own mistakes, even when they are imperceptible to him. He feels very blessed, as this has helped him a lot in his progress and in the improvement of both, as a couple.
- She is beautiful
Most of these men have been married for several years or decades to ordinary women, aged between 30 and 60. And certainly what contributes to them continuing to find them beautiful, even after married decades (and all the effects of time and pregnancies on their bodies), are these so admirable qualities that they have, that they report with so much proud.
As you can see, what GOOD MEN love most about their women is what really makes a marriage happier and more lasting: noble attitudes and feelings, which, unfortunately, is less and less valued and propagated today.
Now it’s your turn, reader
What qualities do you love and admire in your woman that makes her the best woman in the world for you? (Girls, mark your husbands!)