There is no doubt that if you are reading this article you are one of those single men or women who cannot match or flirt on Tinder. And you may think that the rest is to blame, but I am here to tell you that it is most likely that you are making one of these mistakes on your profile. Or even several. Before you jump into the virtual dating pool, let me warn you about some common mistakes that could ruin your experience. In this article, we will show you the 10 most frequent errors in Tinder profiles that prevent you from dating and, of course, how to avoid them. Get ready to succeed in the world of digital swiping! Or, at least, to get a match on Tinder without paying.
The Bathroom Selfie Tinder mistake:
Friends, it’s time to ditch the traditional bathroom selfie. Yes, we all know that you are proud of your body, but taking a photo in front of the bathroom mirror is not the most elegant way to show it. And I’m afraid this also applies directly to photos in gym mirrors. Yes, it shows that you are a gymbro, but be more elegant and take advantage of your muscles in other environments.
Instead, go for a more interesting and natural photo that highlights your best assets. A photo taken by a friend. Or even a selfie in a mirror that is not a bathroom or the typical place. Take advantage of reflections, shop windows and less hackneyed places. Surely you even exploit your artistic vein looking for a new angle with the mobile camera.
The Tinder mistake of boring descriptions:
Do you have a description that says “I like to hang out with friends and have fun”? So original! It was ironic, in case you hadn’t noticed… Avoid these generic phrases and show your personality. Highlight your passions, unique hobbies, or even your quirks. Remember, it’s better to be authentic than boring!
Of course, do not pass either. Being a pimp or being original might make you look like a ghost. The best thing is to exploit the naturalness and speak from the passion of the things that move you. And definitely don’t use ChatGPT to create your Tinder description, or you’ll end up flirting with more bots.
Confused Group Photos Tinder Error:
Are you the handsome one on the left, the funny one in the center, or the interesting one on the right? Make sure you have at least one photo of you alone or by yourself to avoid confusion. Your potential matches want to meet you, not your friends! Maybe you can show off your friends on your profile, just not in the first photo. The feeling of seeing that you are not really the handsome one of the group when you go to the second photo of your profile will weigh heavily and will play against you. Next!
Tinder error of profiles without Bio:
The bio, biography, description or profile is your chance to shine and stand out from the crowd. Don’t waste that valuable space by leaving it empty. Be creative, show your sense of humor, and be specific about what you are looking for. This will help filter out the people who are actually compatible with you.
Surely you or yourself go from profiles without a biography. And many of them are fake or bots. So don’t be of the herd and look for something to put on.
The Tinder over-filtering bug:
There’s nothing wrong with a little touch up. We all do. But be very careful not to exaggerate the filters. We don’t want you to look so different in person that your matches need a magnifying glass to recognize you. Be honest with yourself and with others.
In addition, we are increasingly trained to know when a person uses filters or not. And, if you get caught, they may think not only that you’re not ideal, but that you have a serious lack of self-esteem. And there is nothing less sexy than someone who hides and is afraid to show himself. You’re on Tinder to show off! Do not forget.
Tinder’s copy and paste message text error:
Have you been tempted to copy and paste the same message over and over again? Mistake! Originality is key. Spend time reading the profile of the person you’re interested in and create a personalized message. Show them that you care and that you are genuinely interested.
Yes, rhyming phrases and jokes help break the ice on Tinder. But most likely it will be left alone in that. Before you think you are very original and screw it up, say hello! and asks how his day has been.
The negativity Tinder bug:
Leave your dramas and complaints at home! Negativity is not attractive in any context. Just like the lack of self-esteem or self-confidence. Instead, focus on the positive and what excites you. Show an optimistic and cheerful attitude to attract people who also enjoy life. There will be time for complications, start with the good vibes.
Tinder’s mistake of being a mystery:
If your profile lacks basic information, you are likely to scare others away. Provide some interesting details about yourself, such as your hobbies, favorite places to visit, or even a quirky talent. Remember, curiosity is not always a good strategy on Tinder! You are not that interesting or that important. Better focus on originality.
The wild party photos mistake:
We all love to have fun, but showing only wild party photos can send the wrong message. You may have had a great time, but you have a face in those photos… Make sure you include a variety of images that show different aspects of your life and personality. In bars, on a walk with your dog, the typical photo that you take at home and that you look like a fan… Of course, always in moderation!
The Tinder Not Responding Error:
You’ve matched someone and they’ve sent you a message, but you just ignore it. Staggering mistake! If you’re on Tinder, it’s to interact and meet people. Respect others and be polite when responding, even if you’re not interested. A simple “Thanks, but I don’t think we’re a good match” will suffice. It exploits what they call “affective responsibility”.