Many couples think that our love is stable and secure. No one can bring it down. Many couples have a strong defense against external problems. Sometimes I forget that the internal problems that arise from two people are the ones that constantly undermine your relationship. Especially couples who are married to eat together, you must be very careful. Because some of the behaviors that you thought were acceptable when you first married, suddenly became unacceptable. Anyone who wants to know what behaviors that will lead to the end of the marriage, hurry up and read immediately!
- Do not recognize the word “center”
Our lives are born with a hundred fathers and mothers. Everyone has their own personalities and needs. But when it comes to living together, then it must know the word 50:50. Many couples have to break up because they can’t find the middle between them. I will take this example She will take that way Unbuffed Take your feelings and needs as important, simply say that each person is self-willed. And like this, will the couple life go together? Really ask?
- Can’t find what she wants.
As I mentioned earlier, each person has their own needs. And when someone is in love and hopes that another person will fill in the lack But in reality, many people tend not to speak directly. What do you want And many others are too harsh to ask what your lover wants. More than that is Think for yourself that he wants the same thing as you. Which sometimes it’s wrong! Think about it, if you don’t speak, he doesn’t ask, and wait for it to enlighten yourself! (An ordinary person, not a magician)
- Each person fell silent.
Sometimes silence can be a great solution to a problem as well. Because when the time arguing, try to let the silence take over the situation for a while. It’s always better though! Do not leave the silence for too long. When the mood is stable, you should turn to have a good conversation. Because if you keep quiet for a long time In days for months Like this, love will definitely disappear as well (accidentally meeting someone new, even better!)
- Let love be dull
What should be done for a married life. Always add sweetness to each other. Watch movies, listen to music or whatever, just do it. Because if at any time you neglect the relationship between each other. Does not fuel love to the marriage Then the love that I have will evaporate. From the word of the couple, there could be only two people living in the same house.
- I don’t care about each other
This usually happens to the male side most of the time. As soon as Alzheimer’s symptoms Forget birthdays, anniversaries, important dates, forgetting, forgetting, and addicted friends It makes the other person think that she is not important enough for you to remember? After a long day, it became a disappointment. In the end, I can’t stand it, just say goodbye.
- Keep everything in mind
This problem happens to everyone. Sometimes when we meet the bad things of our lover, if it is not too heavy, choose to keep it in mind, not say, not clear. Let it go quietly though! When encountering the same behavior often, the things that are kept start to become overwhelming and become a time bomb. Good day. Whenever patience runs out of patience! All released The aura was so devastating that love could not be recovered any more.
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- Not solving problems that occur.
When the marriage has problems that sometimes cause both of you to argue. But when the storm was calm People say it’s okay, let it go, and go on living the same. Like this, the event seems to be good. But lastly the same problem Came back to visit again and quarrel again like this, keep on looping Without the problem being solved Not adjusted for understanding Finally, fighting until tired. Can’t keep up with love, then give up.
- likes to tell old stories to tell new ones
This problem is a women’s task. What fuss is going to dig up the old thing to say Retrospectively to the mistakes of the past Like this, let me tell you that no one likes it. Hundreds of traffickers if they get hit often Would like to say goodbye Including picky behavior Think the little things unnecessarily by women too. If you do this behavior on a regular basis, I guarantee that men will stop!
- Let stress take over
I can’t deny that life is always a mess and stress. Some people manage their stress well and survive. But some people are unable to cope with stress that it affects their marriage. When stressed out from work, it comes down to people in the house. Make your lover feel tired Meet like this often Both you and your lover become more stressed. Became a crack in the relationship Just a little longer Like a song of yours that sings “The glass that has cracked will soon be broken!”
- To overcome alone
Lots of couples can’t stay together because they just think that I will win. I have to get everything. I am always right. I refuse and I cannot. (Like the villain in the drama) became a big problem. Arguing back and forth Because you won’t and I won’t. In conclusion, when no one else agrees, the relationship and love are broken into two parts, and most often they don’t connect. Even with a good glue, it still has joints.
Let’s check to see if you and your partner have these 10 bad behaviors as mentioned or not. If that happens It’s probably time you both have to hurry to find a solution. If you still want to sustain your marriage Something that will help solve problems. Has probably had to start with improving yourself first And think about why you love each other Why are you married And what kind of marriage would you like to have The important thing when problems arise is Let’s take a step back and calm down a little. Consider what caused the problem. And how to solve that problem Finally, memorize that “I apologize first win,” then understand each other. This will help you to cherish a long-term marriage.
